2007-02-25 11:54:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not wrong to get the urge...wrong to follow through!
2007-02-25 11:58:33 · answer #1 · answered by nostromobb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is very wrong to cheat but the urge to cheat is natural. temptation is something that everyone has felt at one time or another, the important thing is whether or not you act on it. the love and respect that you have for your significant other should keep you from doing any cheating. if the temptation seems to be too much than you need to try to keep from getting in to those situations and/or find the reason why the other person is so tempting.i.e. is it because you are bored and want something new? in that case you can always try to add some new things into your relationship. relationships take work and a lot of energy especially as the years go on, it makes it easier to take advantage, but the good ones are well worth it, losing love over a fling is not
2007-02-25 12:08:41 · answer #2 · answered by froggie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong to cheat,but alot of people get the urge too. The thing is dont act on it. If you feel there is something wrong in your marriage the talk to your spouse about it. If you cannot work it out then maybe you need to dissolve the marriage. It is the only fair thing for both of you!!
2007-02-25 12:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by HOT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
relies upon on what you advise by "cheat." If a needy baby is playing a carnival sport, and also you "by coincidence" knock the ball into the basket or regardless of so as that she wins a toy, it really is devious, and that i'd say it really is not any longer incorrect. Is it incorrect to cheat on a try in college? sure. and also you likely already comprehend all the reason why. Is it incorrect to get the urge to cheat? Heck no. Thank heavens we are not held to blame for our urges, or we would all be in penal complicated. can no longer help our urges, we may be able to in effortless words attempt to regulate our habit. truly, there are 2 kinds of human beings interior the international - those who admit that they have got undesirable urges, and those who do not admit that they have got undesirable urges. ;-)
2016-12-04 22:58:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Course Not. It Is Only Considered Cheating If You Get Caught. Remember That Though.
(Seriously Though I Guess That Its Wrong)
2007-02-28 13:08:08 · answer #5 · answered by Alexx B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's the same... most people that have the urge to cheat end up cheating. It's like a self satisfactory thing.... the urge will never go away unless you act on it. But acting on it I think is worst.
2007-02-25 12:28:23 · answer #6 · answered by Destinee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is wrong to cheat. However the urge to cheat sometimes just happens. It is what you do about it (or NOT do) that is what matters.
2007-02-25 11:59:53 · answer #7 · answered by ShellyLynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we will always have temptations to do wrong things, urges are urges, but to actually go through with the urges is wrong, as it destroys marriages, peoples self esteems, and the trust and love once shared by the couple. if u really want to cheat, u need to leave the marriage, and get a divorce, not go behind someone Else's back and betray them.
2007-02-25 12:00:48 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Men cheat in 60% of relationships and women 40%. In fact, I assume that, contrary to social opinion, monogamy isn't normal for all people. Unfortunately, society isn't accomodating to those who want to be both honest and are not naturally monogamous. Open relationships are seriously frowned upon.
Most guys or girls don't cheat to get sex. It happens, but not to most people, IMO. Most fall into a relationship unexpectedly and only have two options they see open to them. Leave the new relationship, which is brutally difficult, or cheat. Society has shown them only those two choices.
I am polyamorous. I am very open about my feelings and non-monogamous nature. I always make certain everyone involved is aware and OK before I enter into a relationship (their significant other, if they have one, and my wife). Though sex is a component of these romantic relationships, it's no different than anyone with a girlfriend or wife. They are long term and very loving relationships.
I've found it odd that society will accept cheating more readily than the honesty of polyamory or swinging.
It's believed that women do cheat more than 40% of relationships, but just won't admit it on the surveys.
Having the urge to cheat is normal. Cheating is always dishonest. If you want to be an honorable and honest person, you have to be that way from the beginning, not cheating, sneaking around and being dishonest.
2007-02-25 12:01:30 · answer #9 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
wrong to cheat , every one gets the urge not everybody acts on it
2007-02-25 11:58:15 · answer #10 · answered by Jane Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋