ok so my best friend katie is gay and she got the shizzi-nizzi kicked outta her by these girls who are like 200x bigger then she is, and i think its gonna be even worse at school tomorrow, i will not be much help, im not very strong and i only weigh like 97 pounds, so i will be tossed around like a rag doll.lol. ummm what can i do, i mean shes strong, but its like 5 or 6 girls that are kickin the shizzi-nizzi outta her, what do we do to help her? ((she doesnt want the school invoved cuz den her parents will findout she is a lesbian))
2007-02-25 11:53:34 · 16 answers · asked by koi 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
to the first answer, umm hun sorry im not a lesbian and i will never have sex with a woman, and i wouldnt even put me havin sex with a guy on the internet.lol.
2007-02-25 12:01:23 · update #1
its her dad that will be angry with her, shes scared that he will kick her out
2007-02-25 12:04:17 · update #2
she has a gf, they also beat her too
2007-02-25 12:11:28 · update #3
do you think it would be ok for my bf to beat them???
2007-02-25 12:16:57 · update #4
damn i wish i were there. I'm huge AND strong. i'd help you if i could. hmmm....what can she do to fight back, let me think. Well, even though she's not a boy, kicking anybody in the crotch will hurt. pressure points are inside of wrists, elbows, funny bone, back of the knee. What she needs to do is use her small advantage against these girls. you specified that you and her are both smaller. I wouldn't suggest getting your bf to beat the girls, but i would assume you are fast, so make em chase you. you could go learn Karate or go to the gym. some of us are naturally rocks, some of us are sticks, and they both have their advantages and disadvantages. if they every try to high kick you, grab their leg ad twist is back, and try to push if foward (away from you) if they get her on the ground, make sure she uses her legs, as they are the strongest part of her body by nature. aim for the stomach and legs, especially thighs. try tripping, because it easily gets people down and hen you have an advantage. and easy trip is to put both legs around her ankles and push her shoulders/chest. as a last resort, pull hair and smack their faces. Hmmmm....indian sunburns kill other people. i can't really think, because nothing anybody's ever done to me has hurt. dig fingernails in. try and push her against things, especially uneven things. don't aim for the neck and above. kick her in the azz, no joke. come up behind her and put your foot in her knee cap. email me, rachi_b53@yahoo.com for more tips.
2007-02-25 12:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by Tangy & Cherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell somebody at school. If this is a situation where her health is at stake, then this is a secret that can't be kept. Besides, if she's getting the crud kicked out of her, her parents will probably notice she's coming home looking like chopped liver. Being her friend you need to recognize when keeping a secret is the right thing and the wrong thing to do.
2007-02-25 11:58:44 · answer #2 · answered by chelebeee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Koi, simplify using the word stuffing!
Anyway, do the following:
1. Approach *****.
2. Ready arm by cocking back.
3. Aim to face.
4. Fire at will!
Tell her that and also use a small weapon to swing and/or shank with.
I suggest pointy objects or the trucks of a skateboard (axles).
2007-02-25 13:24:28 · answer #3 · answered by Sean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What evidence do these girls have that she is a lesbian? I mean if she truly is then why would these girls know before her parents? They are going to have to know at some point and time right? I suggest that she talks to her parents. Better her parents than the whole school.
2007-02-25 12:08:44 · answer #4 · answered by Lori M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK if you don't want her to know that you informed the school about what is going to happen, then tell your parents that you have heard rumors that a bunch of girls are going to jump a girl and give them all the information except for your friends name. and that she is gay.
The school will be aware of the situation and be on the look out for a problem if you can get your parents to make the call they don't have to leave their name and they don't have to give your name. your can even make the call yourself. most schools have answering machines.
2007-02-25 12:17:10 · answer #5 · answered by angie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg, i don't know...is there any way you could tell the school without either
A) telling them why the girls are kickin' the shizzi-nizzi outta her, or
B)not telling her parents?
yea i don't think fightin' em's the way to go. if ya gotta, then find a couple a big muscle-y guys to help you, i guess...... her aprents could sue those girls for kickin' the shizzi-nizzi outta her but then they might find out- *sigh* idk what to tell you other than that.
2007-02-25 12:15:03 · answer #6 · answered by Off the Key of Reason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore that other person. You are a good friend for wanting to look after and protect your friend. I can understand why she doesnt want her parents to know shes a lesbian, that'll just open another can of worms....
id suggest getting staff or adults involved somehow tho... you shouldnt and dont have to tell them that her sexuality is the cause. they should want to help anyways.
2007-02-25 11:59:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the two of you need to find someone who can help you that you both trust.....you can not let this go on cuz someone could end of hurt very badly or worse......
It is sad that she feels she can't let her parents know.....why does she not feel she can tell them? sometimes parents will surprise you and be supportive. as a mom I don't understand why her parents wouldn't want her to be able to tell them ANYTHING and when her safty is at risk that's really bad....I know there are parents like that...
good Luck! PLEASE find someone an adult who can help you with this.
2007-02-25 12:01:56 · answer #8 · answered by mrs_b40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to get the school involved, this is Bulls*** and she dosnt have to put up with that, or get them charged. Who cares if her parents find out about her, thats far less to deal with than a funeral.
2007-02-25 12:33:53 · answer #9 · answered by Calais 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can get the school involved by stating that becasue of these RUMORS, she is going to be beaten up from the bullies who have been picking on her recently. This has to be nipped in the bud before it goes any farther!!!!
2007-02-25 11:57:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋