2007-02-25 11:37:33 · 14 answers · asked by lily 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This question will very depending who you ask. Some will give you senseless answers, some will give you real answers. But all I have to say is "Life is exactly what you make it." Your marriage is exactly what you make it to be.
2007-02-25 11:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by sodgirl6763 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This depends entirely on the couple. Is marriage something that you're ready for? Or do you just like the whole idea of it? Usually I advise people to live together first. That's what I did with my ex-fiance. We had the perfect relationship until she moved in, then she realized that she didn't like my work schedule and never being home with her so we broke up....but if we had just gotten married, then I'd be going through a divorce instead.
2007-02-25 11:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by ExperienceD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the couple.If they really like each other even if they have thier differences sometimes then they should pefer to get married. But living together can be just as good if they don't want to make a big step like getting married.
2007-02-25 11:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by rich w 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my husband said to tell u that both is alright to him if u have the best communication its alright to him, me i say its better to marry first, he can spend weekends or nights over but i lived with my husband first and there were days i needed privacy me time and i couldnt get it because he was right there all the time. times when i wanted to visit with old x-boyfriends and new ones just to make sure i wanted to marry him and i could not so be sure u r sure u are clear 4 him 2 move in!!
2007-02-25 11:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by angelswife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Living together is a monogamous relationship (usually) whereas being married is a committed relationship. It depends on your world view and if you want to be considered just a "warm place to put it".
2007-02-25 11:41:03 · answer #5 · answered by spinster wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are planning on having children, get married. Kids need stability and structure, and the emotional tie they get from being part of a committed family.
2007-02-25 14:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
living together i say im not married anymore but you see a person for what n how they really are
2007-02-25 11:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by jeepin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married. It was great except for our marrital problems, and his drug problems... I'm living with my boyfriend now. It's great. Marriage is overrated
2007-02-25 12:09:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lets start by living together and if we like it lets get hitched.
2007-02-25 11:43:58 · answer #9 · answered by wheeliemad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is more effective
2007-02-25 12:21:33 · answer #10 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋