2007-02-25 11:35:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Love your wife enough to never want to hurt her. I was always taught to treat someone as you want to be treated. Before you let the thought enter your mind think how you would feel if she was unfaithful to you? You can also remember that keeping your word is what makes you a truly great man. If you want to be remembered for anything throughout your lifetime especially by your kids, be remembered for your honesty, integrity, and faithfulness. Trust me you will not falter if you commit to becoming that kind of man.
2007-02-25 11:45:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No advice needed. If you are looking in another direction, then something is way wrong and you either want to fix it by identifying the problem, you stay in a state of feeling "stuck" or you walk away and start fresh.
If you are married and really want to save the marriage, then just decide to stay committed to solving the problem.
If you are not married, then you might try distancing yourself from the relationship to be able to determine if it's really what you want.
Good luck to you :)
2007-02-25 19:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by rggiggles 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are always going to see someone that you are attracted to even if you already have an extremely hot girl but if you are going to be loyal, keep yourself out of situations that will test you. For example, if there is female that is interested in you and you are attracted to her and you are in a relationship then stay away from her. Don't put yourself in the type of situations that will get you in trouble. Don't hang out in clubs or bars with women when your woman should be with you.
2007-02-25 22:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by Michael C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh? Is this a variation of "it just happened"? Like you just happened to meetup with somebody in a motel room and your clothes just happened to fly off your bodies, and....
You get the point. How is it supposed to happen if you don't commit yourself to actions that make it happen?
2007-02-25 21:04:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find things anything to do with each other to stay interested. Hobbies to games. I think that if you made it up in your mind you will spend your life with this woman, find ways to do just that. Take care and all the best.
2007-02-25 19:40:50 · answer #5 · answered by nursey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just vow in your heart to never do this to your spouse and your marriage. Just say no and walk away and dont look back. Also do not put yourself in the situations that tempt you to do so.
2007-02-25 19:45:06 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stay focused on your marriage and how much it would destroy your life with your wife if you ever do.If you truly love your wife you would never ever want to be with anyone else..
2007-02-25 19:45:53 · answer #7 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to think--you wouldn't just be hurting your partner, you would also be hurting the person you have the affair with because you'd be using them and can't give all of yourself to them.
2007-02-25 19:40:04 · answer #8 · answered by Gen•X•er (I love zombies!) 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Run away. That's the only way.
You can't outthink an affair.
2007-02-25 19:38:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stay away from so called friend sites such as Myspace.
2007-02-25 19:53:44 · answer #10 · answered by Bu Tran 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋