What should I do? My boyfriend has a baby due in June by a woman I knew NOTHING about.?

Question

I love him and dont want to just give up, but I'm hurt and dont think that I can accept him having another baby and not by me.

Answer 1

oh honey..do you have kids to him? if not...RUN!!!!

Answer 2

Well I think the first thing you should do is tell him you two need to have a serious conversation. He must not have trust in you to not tell you this, or he did this behind your back and is why and thta's a problem.

I'd say if the baby was concieved during a time while you two were together, leave him, even if you have feelings for him. This breaks your trust and it's hard to gain trust back, plus you will HAVE to accept the fact that he has a child by someone else and is going to be a part of your life if you choose to be with im since he is the father.

If its that it was from a previous relationship before you two met then its an issue of trust. He didnt trust that you would accept it well and didn't tell you. If thats the case I think to fix it is to have a talk and discuss your trust levels and let him feel he can tell you anything, but once again, you have to accept that he has a child by another person wich will be a part of your life since he's the father.

So in both situations you are going to have to decide if the trust is still there between you two and also in yourself and if you can accep this truth and accept that it would become a part of your life if you choose to be with him because it's someting that has been done and can't be changed.

Answer 3

ask him y he felt the need to not tell you. If that was me i would run.

Answer 4

if he cheated on you once he'll do it again. you'll always play 2nd.

Answer 5

you should ask him why he didn't tell you about it he is hiding this what else is he hiding?