my ex gf is scard of me what can i doooo!?
well just before crimbo i split with my gf of 2 years...we had a big fall out in her car and she started to slag my family as she dint really ever take a liking to them well my dads side of the family.we had done alot while we have been together in the 2 years i am 20 and she 19 years old soon 20 in april.
she has moved on and so have i we dont have any contact as at first i tryed contacting he with texts calls and emails but i get no reply.the thing is tho i want to be friends i dont want to lose everything we had together and i want to settle for a friendship.she had told me that she still loves me and has feeling as so do i.but i just want a way in witch is ganna make her not scard of me as that brings tears to me knowin some1 i love and care for is scard of me........please help
2007-02-25 11:15:59 · 18 answers · asked by killergibbo1111 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Leave her alone before you violate the restraining order and end up in jail.
2007-02-25 11:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buddy - look she is letting you know loud and clear that she doesn't want to be friends with you at the moment. She is ignoring every move you make. Okay you were together two years and you both have feelings for each other but she has moved on and even though you claim you have - you haven't! Leave the lady alone and she will come around in her own time when she wants you in her life as a mate. Pushing people drives them away and harbours negative feelings.
2007-02-25 19:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, sometime we have to just let go. it's sad, but it a part of life. there are some people in our lives that are meant to be with us through everything, but there are others that once they are gone are gone forever. all i can say is to cherish the memories you have with your ex and definitely leave her alone. should your paths cross again in the future, then maybe you can pursue something. otherwise, you just have to keep her in your memory banks and remember the good times you had together. A relationship is a two way street and if she's closed off that road to you, you have no choice but to go another route...Good Luck to you =)
2007-02-25 19:26:14 · answer #3 · answered by jnlen0504 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some time. It is too soon to try and be friends. There are lots of hard feelings, bitterness, regret maybe, and resentment as you have probably just broken up. Once the emotions are tempered a bit, perhaps you can try to offer the olive branch once again and maybe have more success then. Good luck!!!!
2007-02-25 19:21:04 · answer #4 · answered by JADE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to show her you genuinely changed, if your a hot head where you upset easily you are a red flag you have to change you before you can expect anyone to notice.
Take your time and show her you've changed by taking her on unexpected dates and being a good listner to her needs. Make her feel how you want her to feel its in what you say, what you do, what you won't and how strenuous you are as an individual. Show her you won't allow her to diss your fam thats not an option for discussion because they are your family you can't change that but you will hear her out.
2007-02-25 19:22:32 · answer #5 · answered by Diva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to look at the reason why she is scared of you.
Does she have a good reason to be scared of you?
If so, you need to accept your consequences to your actions. If she does not want to get back together or be freinds with you, you should move on and leave her alone before things get uglier.
2007-02-25 19:26:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is just let go of the entire relationship and get on with your life. What you see as holding on to a friendship, she sees as stalking. Do not try to contact her anymore, find another girlfriend. You have not moved on and you need to just let go and go on with your life.
2007-02-25 19:19:40 · answer #7 · answered by kadel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give them some space, thats really the only thing you can do right now. Try it and see what happens.
2007-02-25 19:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by mangagal1310 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to move on and treat women with respect.
If she is scared of you, u gave her reason to be.
Just move on and if she wants u back, she will get back
in touch with you.
2007-02-25 19:20:02 · answer #9 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried talking to her face to face. the next time you see her talk to her. go to her house and ask whoever opens the door if she is home and if you can talk to her. if she's not or you can't try again a few weeks later. :) hope this helps!!!!
2007-02-25 19:23:47 · answer #10 · answered by mkh6294 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋