Help! ex girlfriend problem!!?

Question

I love her so much, but she broke up with me last week. Because I asked her to marry me so many times that she wanted to break up with me... When she was my girlfriend, we made love like once everyday. and now, that she broke up with me, I am really sad and been dreaming of very erotic situation and have wet dreams and whenever I wake up, I am usually horny. Why is that? I really don't want to be horny all day. I often daydream about sexual fantasies also during the day. What can I do to stop my horniness everyday? and what can i do to get her back?

Answer 1

True love makes you hornier then anything I've ever known, even playboy or porns. But thats not the problem here. You like most of us or caught up in the traditional way of doing a relationship. When in fact people's relationships with each other are as unique as the individual that make it happen. Don't let your pride ruin something that can be their forever if you let it. Don't get yourself caught up believeing that the only way you can be happy with her is if she is married to you and living her life just for you becasue thats not even the way marriage works. If you can build a relationship with here based more on the fact that you guys need each other as oppose to just concentrating on what you want from each other you might be happier. When it comes down to it marriage is societies only answer for a life long relationship, but its not natures. So your going to hurt yourself wanting from this relationship as oppose to needing. Think about it you just need her to be her for you. You don't need to change her, you just want reinsurance and marriage is the only way most of us know how to get it. Anything that touches the heart is going to scar it and scars never go away. Concentrate on how your touching this girls heart and less on how she can better touch yours. Because if its true she's doing a good job already and your missing it up, buddy. Trust me I've been there.