y it is hard for me to sleep after having sex , which i think is the opposite , i feel too much in stress after sex , why it is that ....i feel llike to have a good massage after sex of my head , because i feel it stiffed head , why i feel like to put soo much oil on my head it feels like my head is gone dry after sex , and the oil i put on my head feels better for me ....why these weird things happening with me ... then i have to take some sleeping tablet so to get some sleep , but till morning my brain is running and all the dreams are coming and when i wake up in morning i feel very tired and deppressed , even i feel pain at the back and stiff neck , what u guys think it is , i also feel sensitiveity to light and sound .....help me guys i am 28 male
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2007-02-25 10:54:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
ok if my body temperature rises , so what should i do then
2007-02-25 11:45:05 · update #1
yes its true i am stresses about other things
2007-02-25 12:02:34 · update #2
Prolly cause your use to masterbating instead of having real sex
2007-02-25 10:57:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to feel SLEEPY after sex, not the opposite! So, either you have too much stress, either about other things, OR about the sex itself (do you feel guilty or pressured by it?). Maybe you're too tense during sex. Take time with it, relax and don't rush it. Also, don't worry about "performance" or you're SURE to get even more nervous.
If some relaxation techniques don't help, there may be something else going on, so see a doctor.
Visit the site below for relaxation techniques. It also has a place to ask counselors some questions. They can help you better than most average people.
2007-02-25 19:02:09 · answer #2 · answered by RandomGonzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be hard to sleep after sex because during sex your body temperature will rise thus making it harder to sleep. Do not try and get to sleep for a while after having sex, and taking sleeping tablets regularly is very bad for your body.
2007-02-25 19:42:36 · answer #3 · answered by zix12345 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be straining yourself too much and too excited in having sex so afterwards your mind is roaming around many thoughts that make you awake all night. Try to listen to sweet music after sex.
2007-02-25 19:04:53 · answer #4 · answered by Germz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause you are to focused on all the bad effects of sex. you need to think about possitive effects and relax yourself. Maybe drink camomile tea afterwards.
2007-02-25 19:27:00 · answer #5 · answered by icefreezie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just to keep it simple here....
Are you emotionally ok with who you are having the sex with? Cuz I have "finished" and then spent HOURS with my eyes wide open going "Dear Lord... did I really just do that!?"
2007-02-25 19:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually for men its easier to go to sleep after sex. u may be stressed. read somoething about sex and stress.
2007-02-26 10:03:52 · answer #7 · answered by bidia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a bath after x
2007-02-25 22:08:52 · answer #8 · answered by Expression 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be going to bed if its still hard get back on it man
2007-02-25 19:37:43 · answer #9 · answered by Fire Lt. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consult the proffessionals
2007-02-27 03:12:11 · answer #10 · answered by Sky lark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋