Hey, I'm 17 and recently broke up with my bf, we were together for about 3 months...here's the story...about 2-3 days before christmas was the last time I was in contact with him and the next time i heard from him was a few days before valentines day. His excuse was that he had financial problems and that he was afraid of loving me, I told him he was talkin bull **** and that he was a *****, so two days later I broke up with him and he got all upset like it was a surprise. I told him that I needed space because I have so much on my plate. He then tried to guilt trip me by saying that if I cared about him I would work with him to make our relationship work and wouldn't let the things I have to do get in the way of "us". We still talk because I still care about him and he has hopes to get back with me. My issue now is that I had gotten used to not talking to him and not being around and now when I talk to him most of the time he annoys me. I still care about him but....>continued
2007-02-25 10:27:11 · 4 answers · asked by Ai-Shiteru 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
...But I really feel that I need to move on from him...i mean helped me through a very tough time in my life which is why i think i'm so attached. Also, he said if there was no chance of us getting back together he would never talk to me again.
Now, there's someone new in my life that I really like and the feeling is mutual and I would really like to see where things go with him. I'm just a bit confused because I don't wanna hurt my ex, but in my heart I'm not sure if i can see myself with him again. So should I keep talking to my ex and also see what going on with the new guy or cut the ex loose and just move on in general?
Thank You so much ^_~
2007-02-25 10:28:09 · update #1
i think you are ready to move on........its hard to let people go but if you found someone new then i would let the ex go.........also if you can go weeks without talking to the ex then that's another sign its time to let go and move on he will be OK........and so will you
2007-02-25 10:33:12 · answer #1 · answered by first time mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same dilemma when I was a teen. I moved on, and I was thankful that I did in the long run. Tell him you're willing to be friends but nothing more. Make sure he understands that you are not taking him back, but that you're willing to be a friend to him. Give him some space and see what he decides. If he can't deal with just being friends, then it is time to go your separate ways. In my situation, we went our separate ways, but I think we were both happy in the end.
2007-02-25 18:35:34 · answer #2 · answered by wigginsray 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He sounds like a player, don't trust him.
2007-02-25 18:34:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on you are wirth more than that
2007-02-25 18:44:41 · answer #4 · answered by Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋