with my "bff" (i guess.. idk) shes 14 and drinking and getting waaaay hungover i was just tellin her that i dont think thats good cuz my sis almost died of too much alcohol she had a .3 blood level of it and she got all mad at me. she was like stop acting like my mom, i can control myself, and then she even said YOUR SISTER IS THE SCREW UP NOT ME. I didnt want to get her mad i was just worried about her. im not going to try and help her again, but what should i do now?? i mean that really made me mad when she talked bout my sis like that.
2007-02-25 10:12:54 · 7 answers · asked by Cali_forever! 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I hope she says sorry if Not and it was me I'd really have to think that over and see if she was really a friend I dont know how close you are to her but I'd really be careful if I remained friends with her that was Not nice sorry she treated you that way (hugs)
2007-02-25 10:21:36 · answer #1 · answered by Leveler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously, i would be really much more worried about ur friend's actions than her words.
you need to get her some help. there has to be an adult that you can talk to..maybe the councilor person at your school, or there's a hot line for troubled teens near you.
shes not on a good path, and you really have to let your true colors show through as a good friend and a good person by doing ur best to get some help for this girl.
google teenage drinking help or something and something near you will pop up. if worse comes to worse, I'd even talk to your Principal...
youre the one who knows about your sister, and there is no way that if shes drinking that much her brain is fully functioning...with or without being drunk at the time.
you could talk to her parents too...i mean, just anybody who is a responsible adult who can control her and get her into help
im really sorry she said those things about your sister too... and i know you might not want to try to help her again, but i would seriously consider at least trying..even if you don't tell her that youre the one who told her parents or whatever.
i have a sister, and i love her to death, and i think i might have socced somebody if they had told me that. i think you have a lot of inner strength if you showed enough self-restraint not to do something to your friend.
but like i said, if she has been drinking that much, i dont think she was thinking clearly when she told you that
shes clearly messed up
i hope you can do the right thing...she really does need your help
ur sister has a loving sister like you, and ur "bff" needs u now, no matter what shes said
lol rise above...
2007-02-25 18:23:34 · answer #2 · answered by free_the_frenchfries 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rent her space in your head. Recognize the fact that she is sick and meet that with compassion at every moment. Sooner or later she will open up to you.Be ready to address her anxiety's and/or poor choices with a calm demeaner.Remember that she is sick and in need of comfort.
2007-02-25 18:30:12 · answer #3 · answered by racer123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 year olds cannot make good decisions, the front of their brains are not completely developed. You need to intervene and help her. Where's her mama?
2007-02-25 18:22:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell someone because my sister drinks alot and of she doesnt stop then she could end up doing damage to herself and ppl around her
2007-02-25 18:19:21 · answer #5 · answered by caro72LiveLoveBHappiBCuriousXoXo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring her to rehab ASAP, if not she gonna shaved her head just like Britney.
2007-02-25 18:17:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the police so she can get help.
2007-02-25 18:17:39 · answer #7 · answered by RANDELL 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋