3 to 4 times a week. and 7 times a week at the most?
2007-02-25 10:05:52 · 18 answers · asked by Thumbs down me now 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
people always use the kids as an excuse. i have two and can do it everyday or more. you go in your rooom and say i am busy i will be out in a few min. and shut the door. not a big deal.
2007-02-25 10:42:27 · answer #1 · answered by openminded 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is. Your personal experience is outside the general average experience. By a mile.
There’s a thing called a normal distribution curve. It is a graph that shows the results of many many many types of numeric results. It’s also called a bell curve.
Here is what one looks like:
http://edpsych.ed.sc.edu/seaman/edrm710/images/NormalCurve.GIF
Now this curve happens so much in nature we can predict outcomes with it. Take SAT scores. Some people will bomb it completely. A few more than that will do crappy. Most people will get a ‘C’ or a ‘B’. A few will do really great, and as many as bombed it will ace the test. We can say before it even happens that 68% of all people taking the test will get a ‘C’ or a ‘B’. And that 2.5% will bomb it, and 2.5 % will ace it. Your sexual frequency is clearly in the 2.5% range. Most people - about 97.5% - don’t come anywhere *near* that frequency of sex after marriage. Most married couples report once a week as average. Some say 1-2 times a week for about 6 times a month. Those would be the ‘C’ and ‘B’ grades on the test. Then you have a third who have a much lower frequency than you – more like once every 1-3 months. Then at the low 2.5% range you have people like me who haven’t had sex with their wives in 12 years. So just like I can’t say my experience is normal, neither can you.
And yes it’s hard to believe. That doesn’t mean it isn’t happening -- it’s just tough to believe.
2007-02-25 11:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope it's not hard to beleive I know a family who wound up with 12 children, the wife had 15 pregnancies...obviously they makde love at least 3-4 times a week...
2007-02-25 10:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, that is the way it should be!
there might be times when you don't do it as much, but for us it's pretty much normal at least 3-4 times a week.
2007-02-25 10:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by kristin c 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah.We have 2 kids only and used to do it about six to seven times a week b4 the divorce.
2007-02-25 10:11:21 · answer #5 · answered by Baby Girl R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is is so hard to believe? I had a friend that even after 14 yrs of marriage it was every nite.
2007-02-25 10:13:20 · answer #6 · answered by mister 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. This topic seems to be on your mind...why do you seem so adamant to get others to believe you have plenty of sex? I don't think anyone doubts you...bravo you and your hubby for keeping the fire burning.
2007-02-25 10:10:40 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you do it as often as the both of you want...don't do it just for him....it's a mutual thing... it matters more of what your feeling rather than how often...Your kinda shallow if you think sex defines a marriage though. Decide when you become an adult.
2007-02-25 10:16:58 · answer #8 · answered by Mike M. 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If they can find the time and love each other very much!
2007-02-25 10:09:39 · answer #9 · answered by Gerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats nothin we do it 8 times a week maybe more
2007-02-25 10:08:08 · answer #10 · answered by bubba 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋