Me and my mother-in-law!!!!!!?

Question

My mother-in-law tells everyone that she "hates" me because she is a Leo and I am a Taurus and my husband is a Pieces. And she feels that Pieces and Taurus' don't belong together. She thinks he should marry a Leo, because they are better with everything......please, mature advice only!!!

Answer 1

Are you married to your husband or your mother in law. talk to your husband about it. if he says don't worry about it, guess what? don't worry about it. Live your life , because life is way to short to worry about little stuff like that. live your life with your family like it is the last day.

Answer 2

Pisces With Leo:
Both are more inclined to take than to give. Fiery Leo and watery Pisces best describe these two. This is the depiction of these two. Generally not expected to work but both has an ability to learn from one another if they can get past their innate differences. The strong and hearty temperament of Leo may be too much for the subtle and sensitive Pisces. Leo will come to the conclusion that Pisces is fun for a night and that's about it. It's fun while it lasts. A brief affair is possible but long- term love is not so promising for Leo.

Pisces With Taurus:
This usually is a very difficult, if not impossible combination. The traits of both Taurus and Pisces vary in such a way as to make these two almost an impossible combination. Both will want to dominate the relationship, and the struggle for leadership will be ever present. These two will be highly suspicious of one another, and trust will be a hard issue. This match up can work out though, even though it does not seem to be possible, if something "clicks" between two folks, a certain magic takes over that overrules all the bad associated with a sun sign comparison like this. This is actually true for any match up from any zodiac sign.

I would tell the Mother-in-law that it is her sons life not hers lol

And 70% marriages don't work out and finish in divorce

However people come into our lives for a reason, once we have learnt what ever lesson or taught what ever lesson, it is time to move on so enjoy what you have while you have it.

Love & Blessings
Milly

Answer 3

Honestly this is not a horoscope problem I think that this may an excuse to have a personal grudge against you. I hope pray that she can stop looking into a generalization such as this to find some reason why she finds you not fit for her son. Honestly I you all if you haven't already should sit down and have a talk with each other and try to keep cool and find the real reason why she feels the way that she does, but honestly mothers tend to still be protective of their children's welfare no matter the situation or age. My grandmother is 90 and she will not like any every person her sons or daughters may bring around you know. It's funny that I think of it but my mom is that way about my brother. Since me and my brother live within the same city and not our hometown and he is 7 years older than me by the way but she is always in some way will try to get me to spill beans on him about his relationships and when I tell her it is never good. I can count on one hand how many girlfriends that she actually liked of his. Honestly just talk it through and I pray everything works!!!

Answer 4

On the contrary, many astrologists would praise a Taurus and Pisces pairing =) They have a very promising romantic bond between the two signs. In fact, it is the Leo and Pisces romantic pairing that is not always smiled upon.

However, astrological excuses aside, I believe your m-i-l is simply using this as a tactic to degrade you in some way. It may be hard for her to give up her baby. Do a little research which supports your positive astrological pairing, see what she says. On the other hand...her issue likely has nothing to do with your horoscope and all to do with her anxiety about losing a son to another woman.

Good luck and stay strong. The mother in law phenomenon is a tough one to conquer, but you must stick to your boundaries. She is being nonsensical in her arguments.

Answer 5

ok, this is the deal........(and i am a Leo)
she is controlling......leos and taurus people, at best, tolerate each other.
she made him into a mamas boy and wont let go of him
him being a pisces, the fish, just swims along, in no particular direction, and is used to her bossing him around.
you are more dominant than he is....so she resents that too. it is like a battle of wills , here....
YOU are his wife.....YOU should tell her to mind her own damn business. she should just get a life. HE should stick up for you, but because he is so wishy washy, he probably cant or wont.
tough choices here....
has she always felt this way? if so, you are both stubborn and will not change.
so, you must find a way to co exist or move far away from her.....give him some options and see who HE choses....that will give you a clue as to what to expect for your future..good luck. all us leos are not THAT BAD.......most of us learn to deal with our negative sides and turn them positive......

Answer 6

Am bent over laughing !!!

Mother in laws will use any excuse sometimes..Has she told you that your hair colour is wrong too and does not match your husband's ??

She knows nothing at all poor thing :-).

Please tell her to shut up. It is none of her business and if you and your husband have a good relationship...who cares about sun signs !!! You were brought together in the first place were not you ?

Ignore her ! And I hope your husband is not too much under the thumb and should also tell her not to interfere and make your lives miserable.

She might have problems herself so she might be jealous; some people don't like to see others happy when they are not themselves.

Answer 7

Although leo and pisces is a good match (pisces is romantic for leo), it doesn't usually work out in the long run because one is water and the other is fire. Your combo is better - taurus (earth) and pisces (water), both femenine signs. She must not know much about astrology.

Answer 8

She needs to back away from the horoscope pages and start living in the real world. Try to get to know each other better and don't "hate" one another based on the zodiac.

Answer 9

Ignore her totally.

Answer 10

From the pages of NUPAKRY

“I had done my duties”.

Majority of Indians believe in matching of horoscopes before marriage, and in many cases even after finding perfect horoscope matching between the couples, we see them undergoing great hardship, many couples accept them as their destiny and suffer silently. We match the Chart between the boy and the girl and seldom pay any attention even to know the Birth sign of the in-laws. It has been observed that if the Janma Raashi of a mother-in-law happens to be inauspicious eighth Raashi and the father-in-law’s to be inauspicious sixth Raashi from the girl’s Janma Raashi, then, she will find difficulties in adjusting with them, resulting in dissatisfactions in her married life as far as she lives with them. In our country, many a time the compelling surrounding circumstances may be such that she had to pass half her life with them and bear the burnt!

Read this short story:

Indra was born as an eldest of three daughters in a well to do family. She was beautiful, well-qualified, well-informed, free and frank natured girl who always felt happy in helping the poor and downtrodden. She was an excellent singer, expert in classical dances and always followed Bhagavath Geetha. His father wanted Indra to settle down well in her life and become a responsible wife, a caring mother and led a decent and happy married life. Hence he arranged her marriage with a highly qualified, well-employed, handsome boy hailing from upper middle class family, after getting the horoscope matched from all the leading astrologers.

Indra entered in to her in-law’s house perhaps a new world for her after their honeymoon to some European countries. ! She found her husband to be a very nice man but to be a workaholic; she found him always busy with his job and also found him spending very less time with her, she thought he might be busy due to his long leave from his job during the marriage time. Her husband, working for a foreign firm, used to be at home for few hours per week, and those valuable few hours he preferred to spend with his ‘loving’ parents rather than spending them with her. She observed some odd in their frankness, and also understood that her husband was mere a puppet in the hands of his parents.

On many occasions she noted his parents ill treating her for no reasons, she noticed that even on the occasion while sitting together and discussing many things and when she also shared her past life experience with them, her in-laws disliked her talks and not only changed the topics and but also indirectly insisted her to remain in kitchen and not try to share her views with them. Her husband a pure “puppet” to their parents did not pay any attention to these matters. In course of time she observed her in-laws not even allowing them to be alone and interfering in all their personal matters and her husband blindly obeying and leaving her all alone.

She had to spend most of her times with her heartless in-laws due to her husband’s long and frequent visit to foreign countries… Meanwhile she delivered a male child… She was not allowed to go and meet her parents… Her husband ridiculed her complaints and ‘advised’ her to obey his parents… His parents presented different stories to him about her “rude” behavior… The busy husband listened to his parents rather than his wife and asked Indra to keep her mouth shut… During all the crises hours she used to sit in front of the portrait of her favorite God Lord Sri Krishna and weep…. Finally, once for all she thought to devote her full time for the betterment of her son and made him to study well and earn good… At last she breathed free when she heard that her son had got a very good job in MNC and flying to US shortly, by then she had already turned well forty-five years old!

On hearing the news that her son is flying to US for job, as usual she rushed to her God Sri Krishna, sit in front of Him with a broad smile on her face, tears rolled out from her eyes like a flowing river …she closed her eyes… all the events passed through her mind right from the day one of her marriage. She cried like a child in front of her God…. She kissed the feet of Lord Krishna, and said, “ I had done my duties”.

Many years passed, she lost both her in-laws; her son is doing well in the States with his wife and children and the old lady Indra and her husband are enjoying their ripe age in a remote temple town in some corner.

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