Sometimes I can find men attractive but not enough to turn me on. I may want to kiss or touch a sexy men but not enough to go to the sex part. So I never had a boyfriend that can turn me on. I always have to fake it or think about something else.I never had intimate relationship with same sex before but what is a huge turn on for me is two guys having sex.
2007-02-25 09:42:59 · 13 answers · asked by TOBE 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
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2007-02-25 09:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by Fanny D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you find yourself being attracted to members of the same sex? Or have a close girl friend that suddenly you find yourself sexually attracted to? If you think about having sex with a woman how does it make you feel? Not getting easily turned on does not necessarily mean you are lesbian or bi. But if you find yourself answering yes to the first two questions you may want to try experimenting with girls and see how it makes you feel. That's the only real way to tell.
2007-02-25 09:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by wlfrvn3 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The defining characteristic of being a lesbian is not the lack of attraction to men, but the presence of attraction to women. You not being attracted to men is something completely different, its something you might want to look into. You may just not be a very sexual person, but there may be some underlying trauma that is causing a lack of interest in sex.
2007-02-25 10:00:41 · answer #3 · answered by Jeannie C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel about girls romantically? Could you picture yourself catching a movie, talking over dinner, setting up a household or possibly adopting kids with another woman? Could you picture yourself doing any of the above with another man?
Sometimes, people are attracted to a gender romantically but not sexually, which can make things very confusing.
Have you ever considered women attractive? There are a lot of variables, and you shouldn't feel like you need to limit yourself. Like Tony said, maybe you need a guy who can play a girl or is very submissive and likes to be penetrated.
Good luck. Don't be afraid to experiment but please do so safely.
PS: A lot of us have that little dilemma. I think two gay men going at it is very ... scintillating.
2007-02-25 09:52:45 · answer #4 · answered by Adrian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is: Are you turned on by women? If so you're probably a lesbian girl, which is perfectly normal. But, since you're not attracted sexually to men, but find man-on-man to be a turn on, you might be a bisexual girl, leaning to be lesbian. If you're not attracted to men, or women, then you maybe asexual (Not turned on sexually by any gender), which is normal as well.
2007-02-25 09:50:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily.The question isn't who aren't you attracted to a lot. It's who you ARE attracted to a lot. If you are attracted to women, then yes probably. It is however possible to be attracted that much to either gender. It is also possible that you just aren't emotionally ready for sex right now.
2007-02-25 10:45:22 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sexual acts don't necessarily turn me on either.. i need to feel a strong emotional bond with a person.. love.. trust, respect.. intimacy.. don't rush into sex so quickly with men (or women). try to develop a close loving relationship, and only then will you really know for sure whether you are straight, lesbian, or bi.
2007-02-25 12:09:53 · answer #7 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're interested in sex, but don't have a sexual attraction towards men, then odds are you're a lesbian.
2007-02-25 15:36:41 · answer #8 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try having sex with someone of the same sex see if that turns you on
2007-02-25 10:33:19 · answer #9 · answered by babygirl11 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why don't you look for a man who crossdresses in the bedroom and try having a good time knowing he's a man dressed as a woman (one that is clean shaven all over ) and see if that will change your mind...let me know how it works out for you...and good luck (lucky man)
2007-02-25 09:49:59 · answer #10 · answered by tony c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u may want 2 try a trio LOL jk, and no i dont think u are...
2007-02-25 09:46:50 · answer #11 · answered by Hansel Jr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋