i like 2 guys. what do i do??they are like best friends too! i always catch one of them staring at me during a class. what do i do?? i am also friends with one of them. they both go to the same high school i do too!! i am sooooo confused! why do boys have to be soo confusing??? i dont want to ask any of them out too!
2007-02-25 09:26:32 · 7 answers · asked by Lolly 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the first one is fairly shy and quiet. the other one is so nice and talkative but mature, this one is my friend. he is tall like me and is easy to talk to without having me turn bright red. is he the one tht i shood go out w/? HELP!
2007-02-25 10:11:57 · update #1
In my opinion, having TWO good friends is much more important than having to choose 1 boyfriend. I think if you "go out" with either of them, it will be a mistake. Why ruin a good thing, and have the two guys fall out of their friendship to one another? If you chose one, the other will probably resent you, and, also the guy you choose. Everyone will lose all the way around. Keep it AS IS. It will be a win! win! win! for all three of you. Boyfriends come and go, but good friends are hard to come by.
2007-03-05 05:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The last thing you want to do is to come between the two of them. How you treat both of them is important especially since they are the best friends.
Put yourself in their shoes. What if you and another girl was friends with one of them? How do you think you and your best friend would feel if one of those guys liked one of you? Sure now it becomes more tricky because then you get to see the shoe on the other foot now.
What is most important is to consider other people's feelings here. Another things is do one of them like you or even show feelings of interest beyond a friendship.
A guy that is friends with you will treat you more like a sister. A guy that sees you beyond that will want to date you.
If you are too afraid to ask them up front then ask them hypothetically. Maybe say something like a what if question to both of them or you could say flat out question like? Would you ever date a girl like me? Heck I would if I wanted to know for sure.
I had one guy that let me down easy and we became friends and I had a huge crush on him mainly because he was a gentleman. He was cute too but we became friends mainly because he felt no attraction to me that way.
Don't ever feel badly if a guy let's you down easy because that way you find out with out wondering for a long time. Then you can find someone else instead.
Don't be afraid to ask them but also be considerate to both of their feelings because it would be worse if both them of ended up liking you back. Make a choice to go out with one of them if that's the case.
One word of advice never date another guys brother especially if you dated the older brother. It's not worth it.
2007-03-05 00:37:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First harm up with the greater youthful guy, he has no porpose to you. PLus being an 8th grader myself dating a sevie is a extensive turn-off. Now, for the older guy attempt to get into the comparable social circle. yet I additionally consider that different guy, cheerlead or something and in particular concentration on college or you will experience sorry approximately it once you get into 9th and splendor what the instructor is speaking approximately whilst he says you lined this final 12 months. (i goofed off with adult men thank you to lots in 8th)
2016-11-25 22:57:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't go with your friend unless you are sure he likes you because you can ruin a relationship as in your friendship
2007-03-05 09:13:46 · answer #4 · answered by helpless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing i can tell u is to ask one of them out, forget them (by that i mean dont try to persue a realationship) or option #3 is wait on them to ask u (which is not a guarentee of ur happiness)
good luck on ur crushes
2007-02-25 09:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by the.journey.is.the.reward. C.P. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
none of them ! they are your freinds go out with another guy that you think you like or one of them that you have a good gut feeling about
2007-03-05 09:15:29 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Univers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say ask the one that is yuor friend. you'll have a better relationship with someone that you know faily well than with one you dont know at all.
2007-02-25 09:37:05 · answer #7 · answered by Shelley 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋