well we were good friends from 4th grade to like the beggining of 8th (im in 9th now.) he had a girlfriend in 6th then 7th they broke up and i got them back together and they r obsessed with echother. they r together everyday. and ever since he is makeing fun of me, well just makeing me feel like a lozer and he also shuves it in my face that he has a girlfriend and i dont. (never have) and i did a lot for him as a friend and he NEVER does anything for me, he blows me off anytime i ask him if he wants to do somethin on the weekend and he just either never calls, doesnt answer wen i call him, or makes some really lame excuse that he cant go. and ya we have fun at school wen hes not makeing fun of me. and him and my cousin r my only friends. i love my cousin shes AWSOM i mean a real friend. but ya he is really walking all over me and does watever he wants to. so wat do i do?
i have a VERY hard time makeing new friends too. cause im the shyest guy u will ever meet. so ya wat do i do?
2007-02-25 08:41:11 · 13 answers · asked by Josh 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hes nothing but a Looser hun,move on you need and will have much better!
Dump his sorry ***
2007-02-25 08:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make compromises like these. It's hard to make friends, but I'd rather be on my own than have friends like the one you mentioned.
I don't actually have best friends. I consider them colleagues (I'm in 10th grade), and not more because I got to the conclusion that they don't deserve my friendship. No, I'm not bitchy, but I'm just tired of being stepped on and being talked to only when they need my help.
Anyway, I'm sure you'll find a true friend someday. Meanwhile, stay cool and stand up for yourself.
2007-02-25 16:55:54 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your problem is him. I think he made you think that you cant make anymore friends when in reality you ccan. This dude is playin mind games with you and you need to cut him lose. HE IS NOT YOUR FRIEND. You only call him your friend cuase you dont have any besides your cousin> I only have one friend and thats all i need. People let you down in life so keep the people you trust toi a minimun. Its not hard to find more friends just be careful who you call a friend. He is using you to make himself look better and THAT IS NOT WHAT FRIENDS DO. CUT HIM LOOSE. he is only hurting you you can do bad all by yourself not with some punk bringing you down.
2007-02-25 16:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by Im just tooooo freakin cute 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, a real friend wouldn't do that. But since he did, don't hang out with him anymore, instead of thanking you, he teases you. Does he know how u feel? If he dosen't, then u should sit down and talk. Just because he's been your friend since the 4th grade dosen't mean he's a real friend. But talk to him first. Ok? I hope your doing ok.
2007-02-25 17:00:48 · answer #4 · answered by Yahoo! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, don't let nobody belittle you if they are suppose to be your friend. And next time he teases you about having a girlfriend, remind him that you were the one who got them back together. Truthfully, I feel that he is only your friend when it's convenient for him & that's not a real friend. You know what, I'll be your friend! Best Wishes!
2007-02-25 16:53:02 · answer #5 · answered by Lania 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first of all friends that blow you off for there bf or gf are not true friends at all and if he is making fun of you for not having a gf why would you want to be friends with him anyway, You need to go to places and try to meet new people I am sur ethat your school has tons of people that would like to be your friend..start asking them if they want to hangout. They might suprize you and say yeah
2007-02-25 16:52:06 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think ushuold just say it what u think about him right in his face and if he says something back just tell him shut the f*** up
do it right in his face that shoould get him on the right track and about the girlfriend stuff u don't need to have a girlfriend all the time u can be single for a little while
GOOD LUCK *_*
2007-02-25 16:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is the only friend you have you still have no friend's. I HAD rather have no friend's than to have a friend like this one. Don't let so called friend's, enemies, or even family treat you this way. You deserve better.
2007-02-25 16:50:50 · answer #8 · answered by beebee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAN THAT SUCKS,Im shy my self,i dont have friend for the same reasons and bcuz they are fake most of the time,look he thinks hes popular and cool and see's you like a looser because
your calling him and try to hang out with him,he thinks by putting you down he's going to look cool.i would recommend you to ignore him ,look for some one you is shy and try to talk to him or her ,he is not worth it ,he's fake .he will feel bad after he realizes you dont want to talk to him.what goes around comes around..
be yourself and always respect people like you want to be respected and they will come to you.
2007-02-25 16:56:47 · answer #9 · answered by ♥I_rock_you♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just stop talking to him. He will miss you after a bit. and if he doesn't you don't need friends like him any how.
2007-02-25 16:46:52 · answer #10 · answered by sosueme534 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋