I suspect that one of my friends might be straight. I have known him for about 3 years, and he does not have a bf. Is my friend straight? Thanks for your advice.
2007-02-25 08:20:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
As much as finding out the truth may be important to you, it's up to him to confess his heterosexuality to you when he chooses to.
In the meantime, keep in mind that nobody is perfect and his sexuality is only a small part of who he is. If he prefers to sleep with women, that's his own business and he was born that way. He didn't choose to be straight, you know.
Continue to be a caring and supportive friend to him and one day he'll trust you with his dreaded secret.
:)
2007-02-25 08:52:31 · answer #1 · answered by castle h 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The heterosexual lifestyle is a bitter and unhappy road. Many heterosexuals are too ashamed to admit it to themselves and to others - even close friends and family. They do not want to admit that they are attracted to the same kind of orafice that their mother's birthed them from. Many do not want ot face that the gay community will have to foot a big part of the bill to pay for his children's education and welfare, and it may be too hard for him to face his gay friends. he may be restless at the idea of having to be tough and dumb like his other straight buddies and have to get drunk and act stupid and talk about breasts all the time.
Do not be hard on him if he should admit this terrible secret. Love him unconditionally. There are worse things to be than heterosexual. I don't know what at the moment, but I'm sure there are. If you are a truly good friend, go to him and confront him. Forgive him for pretending to be gay just so you wouldn't think bad of him. Tell him not to give up and that there is hope at www.Gay.com. Good luck.
2007-02-25 11:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by hmghosthost 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i might want to say about 9/10 of my pals are immediately dudes. they don't care that i'm gay, i do not care that they are immediately. we are only a bunch of adult males who grew up at the same time. I do have fairly some LGBT pals, although, and that i love 'em merely a similar. that is merely that my husband and that i have a tendency to get alongside extra useful with immediately adult males, see you later as they are open-minded adequate to entice close we are merely human beings and we are no longer attempting to get with them, haha. very last nutrition I ate replaced into some floor turkey, and a elementary salad, that I cooked for lunch for me and my youngsters. highly sturdy. :)
2016-10-17 09:02:04 · answer #3 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun if hes your friend you should just ask him. and I dont see how he would be straight if he told you he was gay.. Maybe he's bisexual..Or just cant find a good men like I cant find a good women
2007-02-25 08:32:50 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
part of being a friend is the ability to accept another person unconditionally. if you are indeed his friend, being gay or straight won't influence you level of friendship.
if the issue is bothering you, ask your friend. but be willing to accept his answer----straight or gay.
2007-02-25 08:28:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it matter? If you want to know ask him. I he feels YOU are a true friend wouldn't he tell you?
2007-02-25 08:22:49 · answer #6 · answered by TBAR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's monosexual or antisexual or even autosexual. He might be a eunich. You should ask him.
2007-02-25 08:24:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the big picture what differ does it Make!!!
A Friend is a Friend!!!
Wahoo!!!
2007-02-25 08:23:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he just cant meet anyone that he likes
2007-02-25 08:30:21 · answer #9 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is. I am so sorry!
2007-02-25 08:26:57 · answer #10 · answered by Kedar 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋