ok well i juz got married to a very wealthy,attractive man but he has 2 kids. i dont like them but he insist on having them around. he works donald trump and is seldom hom,which is great for my other affairs, but i juz cant be seen with children. im 26 and i do luv this man i guess. but how to get rid of these children? there mother died when she found out her husband was with me(she drunk herself to death) but my friends are celebs. my insanely rich husband is 44 and will not let them go to boarding skewl. if he dies b4 march 28 then they get his fortune...what should do 2 get rid pf them...? how about adoption.
2007-02-25 08:10:31 · 9 answers · asked by rawr 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
this is not my problem, i saw it on t.v..... juz wondering wat u would do
2007-02-25 12:29:10 · update #1
You greedy golddigger, the question is "How fast can the kids get rid of you?"
2007-02-25 08:15:44 · answer #1 · answered by sherri p #5 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have a golden opportunity to a wonderful thing and I think that you are truly doing a disservice to these children, your husband and yourself.
These children need a mother-figure in their lives, and instead of becoming one to them, you want to pack them off to some boarding "skewl", or any place else just so you can hang out with your 'celeb' friends? (Whose existence I really tend to doubt. Your grammar doesn't belie that of a wealthy, high-society jet-setter...)
At any rate, instead of being a mature wife and mother, you are more interested in how to get control of his fortune and adopting out these two children who just lost their mother??
Please. Do them all a favor and leave them with their only surviving parent and hope that they can salvage some kind of family unit from this tragedy. They all deserve better than you, and you don't deserve anything from this situation. You sound like a gold digging party girl, and why you think you deserve anything from him is beyond me. You stated "I do 'luv' this man I guess." You don't even claim to truly love him, but you certainly love his money and his so-called celebrity status.
You need to grow up and see what is really important in this world. And it isn't money or status. It's family, children, and the chance to do something really meaningful in someone's life.
2007-02-25 08:19:56 · answer #2 · answered by luvmelodio 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like a friend of mine always said - " Ain't no good gonna come to you." I think that you are attracted to this man's wealth and not his personality. I think that he wants you to be a mother to these children. Think how it would feel if you had two children and your new husband doesn't want to have nothing to do with your children? I actually went through this - my father married his wife after dating her for about 10 years. She lived with us, but never gave me or my brother the time of day. To me she was just my "father's wife and nothing more". I won't go into the emotional pain and the effects of the rejection I received from my father's wife - I simply dealt with her rejection and moved on with my life. My mother abandoned me a long long time ago and until I married my husband I went through life motherless. I sincerely hope that you re think your decision to basically have no relationship with his children. One day - you will be old and One day you will need someone to take care of you when you are ill. Children are forever in debt to their parents, reject them now - pay later.
2007-02-25 08:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by Sasha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you for real??? What kind of self-absorbed, greedy, immature person did this poor guys' kids inherit as a step-mother? Surely you must be joking with this question, because no self-respecting, decent woman would ever dare to admit to having such selfish and horribly distasteful attitudes as your question shows you to be displaying. I hope that if you ARE for real, you had to sign a prenuptial agreement, and I hope this guy has the sense to put his kids above anyone else - especially you.
2007-02-25 08:32:33 · answer #4 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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Step on their shoes... u r young for limited time, they could be your friends forever. I was "other man" kid and left my mother and all family as soon i could.. they missed me bcs now i have lots of money and successfull in my businesses, besides im interesting and very caring person, not with them thou....
cheers
2007-02-25 08:45:28 · answer #6 · answered by Inna D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your dreams wicked step mother. Quite a story you made up here.
2007-02-25 08:33:53 · answer #7 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are a horrible horrible person this is wrong if i were the kids i would want to move i hope ur husband finds out about this
2007-02-25 08:19:46 · answer #8 · answered by confused 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What soap was this.hahaha
2007-02-25 09:35:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋