now i almost become 26, ok i need women in my life, but not yet face love, shall i just marry a good person or wait for love?
2007-02-25 08:06:56 · 31 answers · asked by chemistman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
nooooooo.....wait till you fall in love...you have plenty of time
2007-02-25 08:09:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My parents have a neighbor.... He married the girl next door as he thought that she would make a good wife. They married had 2 daughters. The youngest daughter was my best friend... The wife slept on the couch consistently, while he got the bedroom... They are still married but I think it has been like a "room mate" setting for many many years...
If you marry for love... you have your love to fall back on. That person that makes you giddy...and when you kiss you get the butterflies...
26 years old is not old...not at all. Wait for love and you'll find your soul mate and it will be sooooooooo worth the wait..
2007-03-02 20:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by *G* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is a growing, living thing not a "fall into" thing as most people seem to think. I "thought" I loved my wife when we married over 30 yrs ago BUT no where close to the way the love has grown today. WAIT and marry a girl you "THINK" you love and hopefully years to come you'll realize that it takes work, taking, GIVING, a MUTUAL thing that grows and blooms and almost dies along the way only to return again and again ever stronger each return. marriage is a serious commitment. WAIT!!
2007-03-04 21:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by Gardner? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I haven't seen any answers about children from a loveless marriage. Think about the children that could result from a situation like that and the repercussions on them. Marry without love? Absolutely not! Then you end up with a broken marriage and children that don't have two full time parents. Love first, then marriage. Your children will thank you.
2007-03-05 09:52:02 · answer #4 · answered by docelec2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well here is the cold hard truth. Don't get married yet. You have alot of growing up to do. Your only 26 don't be in such a hurry when you find the right girl you'll know it.
2007-03-05 13:52:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till you are in love. And know for sure that you are in
love. Learn who the person is completely (no hidden secrets).
And then marry and have a happy family.
2007-03-05 15:33:41 · answer #6 · answered by chmar11 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait, to get married u have to find the one u love u can't see a woman down the street and tell her to marry u because u want to built a family, u have to take time, the right person will arrive and u will have both love and family!!! and in the other way to make love, i thkink u make love with the one u like!!! so take time in everything and u can achive everything both of them are nice, but time by time everything comes. i know what i am saying!!! trust me and have faith!!! take care!!!
2007-03-05 05:09:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No 26 is still young. You think it's fair to a woman to know that her husband married her because she is a good person? Think about what you do before you do it as well as what you say.
2007-03-02 23:22:18 · answer #8 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait for love...you can't have a loving family without being in love with your spouse. I don't recommend making babies with a woman that you don't love, but are married to. You are still young, your soul mate is out there somewhere, you two just haven't found each other yet.
2007-02-25 16:10:36 · answer #9 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are not in love with the person, why would you marry them. Do not get married just because you want to be married, you will regret it for the rest of your life because you will not be happy.
2007-03-05 11:34:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait!!! You should not marry someone just because you feel pressured to. You should be in love with someone and they with you before you jump into a commitment as big as marriage.
2007-03-05 14:56:20 · answer #11 · answered by BamaBelle810 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋