I have fun with him, he makes me laugh, I enjoy spending quite afternoons with him, my family and friends love him, he is hot, attractive, intelligent, genuine, honest, trustworthy, etc...
But the problem is is I have always been in dramatic relationships and now finally I am in a healthy one.
But the problem arises here. I dont know 100% if I should marry him. I know he would be a great father/husband so why dont I know if I should marry him....How do I know if I am just with him cause he has all of those qualities?!?!
I have never had trust in someone before and FINALLY I trust someone. I didnt think it was at all possible until I met him. Are my doubts happening because I sometimes still think about my ex who was a complete jerk to me or what?!?!
Are there any suggestions?
Sometimes because I trust him so much it makes me think that I just dont care about him but today we were in the grocery store and saw a girl who he used to be with and that bothered me?!?!
2007-02-25 08:01:10 · 4 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't understand the problem you have here. If you love him, then why not? I'm the same as you. Whether or not we admit it, we need a little instability. Its too scary being totally happy because we fear it'll end. Get over that, if you've found a great guy, congratulations and do it. Only if you love him though.
2007-02-25 08:06:01 · answer #1 · answered by s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good questions. What if this guy felt the same way that you do right now? How would that make you feel? Pretty lousy ... as far as I can see your not ready to be in a romantic relationship yet. Talk to your pastor at church or seek out counseling.
2007-02-25 16:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by divinity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to find a way to remember each person is an individual and treat them as so, he is not the one who caused your hurt, he shouldn't be punished for it.
2007-02-25 16:04:49 · answer #3 · answered by Mystee_Rain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! DO IT! I mean c'mon....how many times in life do you meet someone like that guy? Hardly ever!! Go for it gurl! =)
2007-02-25 16:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by JC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋