How to make my friend care for me??

Question

I hv a very good friend I care a lot for her. I do everything to make her happy when she is sad, I try to b there for her when ever she needs me. bt wen I need her she is nver there for me. I feel she talks to me jst bcoz I make her laugh wen she is sad, for her her family is 1st, I knw thats not wrong bt still she can give me sometime, i dnt hv many frnds bcoz I dnt get close to any1 she is d only one with whom I'm close and with me she is. she tells me everything thats going in her life. I tried not talking to her infact tried avoiding her N some how she makes me get back to her. I dnt think I can b happy after I brk up wid her. I dnt wnt to lose her but I think I wil lose her bcoz she nvr tries to understand me even if she does she nvr shows it, infact I dnt gt her attention as much as I give to her. I am really suffering plz help me!! Give me help to make her realise I am important to her so that she wil give me her time and start caring more for me. please help me... bye

Answer 1

Hi. u know I reckon (buy I might be wrong) that the best way to make ur friend care for u is to keep caring about her. sooner or later she will realize what a gd friend u r. I've got some friends and I mean true friends that seemed not to really care about me, but great feelings cause great feelings:). Not every1 will care about u as much as u care about them or as much as u wish they wld. Different ppl define caring in different ways, maybe that's the case.
If I were u I'd stick by her anyway, but that's me. I don't give up if I 'clicked' wiv some1. I think it's sooo worth it!!!:D
good luck
let me know hows it going

Answer 2

What I'd do, is to write this out again in proper English and send it to her. If you are friends you should have the art of conversation mastered, and be able to share these things. and if it is a real friendship it will get over this and get stronger, or as in my case, it will dissolve the friendship completely, but that is not a bad thing, because if you respect yourself, you will not keep putting yourself through this one way relationship.

Because it doesn't matter how much you love and care, if she just isn't on the same page, there is nothing you can do about it.

My friend just walked away rather than make an effort, proving she was no friend at all.

Answer 3

Well best friends are supposed to be able to talk about anything, right? So maybe you can tell her how you feel. Tell her that you care about her and give her a lot of attention but you don't feel like she cares about you as much as you care about her. Ask her if it's true. Hopefully she will realize what she is doing is wrong and will try to correct it.

Answer 4

I think she may be using you for comfort. But maybe, she is not. Maybe she does not know how to be a good friend like you. Talk to her about, the more you talk, the more she learns. Maybe she will say sorry, or maybe she can care less. You can take it from there. Good Luck!!♥

Answer 5

ok u cant make someone care about u so y dont u sit down wit her and explain how u feel about her not caring about u and if that dosent work out then try to get more close friends to hang out wit too cuz u can havemore than just one best friend.

Answer 6

well if she was a true friend you wouldn't need her to really care for you, because she would already anyway. Maybe she doesn't see you the way you see her and as a result you should rethink about how much effort to make for her.

Answer 7

seems u seek love and she is only a friend ,sorry but u have to know she is drawing a clear line and u aint getting the signal ,deal with her within friendship and if u want love she aint into it its obvious ,

Answer 8

You need to expand your social circle so you aren't so dependent on your one friend.

Answer 9

i think you should talk to her personally?? about the matter