I don't crossdress for pleasure, I just want to look like a girl.
I am also looking for more tips.
2007-02-25 07:59:27 · 11 answers · asked by Jamie I 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I have transgendered friends who had the same problem at the beginning. They really felt female, but the body reacted normally as a male at the touch of the clothing, part of it is that the clothing is soft and comfortable.
Most of them cured the problem through getting hormone treatment started. You will need to seek out a therapist who can help you get into the process of a sex change (if I have misunderstood you forgive me)
If you are just a Transvestite (just like wearing the clothes), I have heard that masturbating before you put on the clothes will help, not experiencing this I am not positive
www.pflag.org
an organization for families of LGBT can guide you to a group more specific to support you in your area
2007-02-25 08:51:01 · answer #1 · answered by startrektosnewenterpriselovethem 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Contrary to what you have just said, it sure sounds to me like you are 'enjoying' yourself while dressed. If there was truly no sexual attraction, you would have no problems with un-wanted erections. Besides, don't feel bad! Crossdressing can be highly motivational. Your reaction is very normal.
If you are concerned with being embarrased while you are in public, just do what everyone is suggesting. Clear your pipes before getting dressed. That should take a big bite out of any 'arousing' thoughts that may occur.
2007-02-26 07:25:01 · answer #2 · answered by Tracy Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This a normal reaction for many who start crossdressing. Once you become used to it and learn to relax and enjoy it, you will find that you will have an erection when you want it. If you find that you constantly get aroused, there is nothing wrong with pleasing yourself while you are dressed. Just don't mess your things up.
2007-02-26 01:59:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all do you dress in used lingerie? But i know what you are saying,I to wear bra's and panties everyday, But when i get around used one's like when i'm cleaning out someones vaccant appartment and i do come across alot lingerie I my self get hard, One case i saw the girl that moved out and she was great looking, Well anyway there was some used panties and other stuff and when i was alone, i put her clothes and it was'nt long and now my panties were wet, i'm glad i got a good haul that
day, new one's don;t bother me at all, So just enjoy
2007-02-25 11:05:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I masturbat before I dresss up and I can wear my lingerie for the rest of the day and around the house without getting them wet.
2007-02-25 09:41:38 · answer #5 · answered by tony c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know nothing about this, but it sure sounds like you're doing it for pleasure. :)
2007-02-25 09:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by Meg W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try masturbating prior to dressing, if it doesn't work the first time do it again then get dressed.
2007-02-25 11:46:41 · answer #7 · answered by Crampy Grampy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes masturbate or have some sort of sexual activity that will lead to ejaculation, and you shouldn't have another erection for a while..
2007-02-25 12:32:35 · answer #8 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll have to try to keep your mind on something that terrifies or disgusts you to get it down.
2007-02-25 10:14:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to stop an erection?
2007-02-25 10:05:50 · answer #10 · answered by Grrr! 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋