Okay my ex.bf and fiancee from highschool was my first everything including first love.We went through a lot of drama he was a friend of mines ex.bf and my parents were overly protective.He got me pregnant we broke up i got stressed tried not to show and starved myself.We got back together and broke up again i lost the baby few weeks later at 5 months it was awful.I told him about it and we kept in touch for a little while but had a misunderstanding through text messages his gf vs my cousin as me.Yesterday he drove by my house looking for me and we talked for the first time in 6 months.He wanted to hang out later that day and teased about s*x.He flirted with me when we met up even though he has a gf then he got very touch feelie started kissing me. I told him i felt uncomfortable so he took me back to my car.I still love my ex. bf and would like to be friends with him ?
2007-02-25 07:50:32 · 10 answers · asked by Mandie G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I really miss him but i dont want to be a side dish to his gf.Should i wait a week to call and explain this to him i think this may have been a misunderstanding?
2007-02-25 07:51:18 · update #1
Lose this rotten bastard...Do not ever see or speak to him again. He is just interested in you a a booty call.
2007-02-25 07:55:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, me = same situation. Except, this guy wasn't my boyfriend. He kept telling me "Oh, I really like you, but I'm not ready for a new relationship because me and my ex had a bad one." So, stupid me.... thinking eventually he'll be ready for a real relationship with me....I keep seeing this guy. And keep having sex with him. Well, after a while, his calls stop. He doesn't bother with me anymore. I later find out through the grapevine that his GIRLFRIEND is back from Florida. Well, in turn... he really had a girlfriend, but she was away... not broken up. And I was the side that he thought was hot, and figured he get in on his chance that she was gone by telling me how much he liked me. I now hate him. My advice is, if you want to be friends with him, then do it. But do not have sex with him, do not kiss, touch, anything. Be FRIENDS. Because otherwise you will be the side. Especially if you are better looking than his girlfriend, he'll just think you are the nice dessert while he stays with his boring main course. So please, don't make mistakes that I did and get hurt. It sucks. Good luck hun!
2007-02-25 08:01:07 · answer #2 · answered by It's a secret... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him play you again he is just trying to see how far he can get with you this time around. Or he just has some time on his hands.I know it is hard but you have to try and deal with it on your own and move on without him.I've been in that position before and I had to deal with it.Tell him to get to stepping and even if it is not true tell him you've moved on and he should do the same.
2007-02-25 08:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by BOBINE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to be a side dish so what makes you think he will be committed to you ? It seems that you went thou a lot with him in the past I suggest you to keep a friendship level before starting all over again. He seems that he won't respect your wish. All he wants is s e x. You make the choice.
2007-02-25 07:58:15 · answer #4 · answered by LIZA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to be kidding, you still love that piece of s.h.i.t. Are you nuts or just hard up to have a b/f? Grow up and do NOT talk to that thing anymore. He just wanted to hang out (have sex) because you lost your baby and he's off the hook for the support of it. So he is thinking he can still get in your pants anytime he wants too. You need to tell him to f.u.c.k. off.
2007-02-25 08:02:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u were his girl, would u like ti if he cheated on u? he is a cheater and would cheat on u too if u were his. if your past with him was awful why would u want him back? why would u want to take the chance again of having the same old things happen to u? have u not learned by this?
2007-02-25 09:14:23 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just using you....He just wants to keep you dangling by a string and that is it. You need to move on, and find someone else. You are nothing more than a play toy to this guy and that is it......and I bet you anything....that since he is fooling or wanting to fool around with you on his GF....then he did it to you, and will do it to you if you go back to him.....be smart.....don't.....you need to be independent and strong.....Do not have anything more to do with him.
2007-02-25 07:59:35 · answer #7 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look back at your own question. He uses you because he can......STOP it now!!! Do not see hom again....and while you are at it - you may want to tell his gf about this latest episode.
2007-02-25 08:04:48 · answer #8 · answered by snowdrop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want a guy who is willing to cheat on his girl friend??? He would do the same to you..Move on to something better!
2007-02-25 07:57:03 · answer #9 · answered by Lucky 7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't be just good friends, you be much better to let go and forget , move on and find someone you can share your life with.good luck.
2007-02-25 07:57:58 · answer #10 · answered by skip3800 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋