2007-02-25 07:33:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I know this isn't really answering your question, but to the people who are responding, what is WRONG with wanting to come out to the people you love and care about? That's what bonding is all about. You should be able to be yourself and KNOW that you are among TRUE people who love you, like your family and friends without just 'living your own life and eventually they'll figure it out". They shouldn't HAVE to "figure it out". If your friends and family were your TRUE friends and family, they would love you regardless and be proud of you for taking a brave step in telling them. Coming out is a liberating experience, due to sometimes many years of being closeted. If you are not gay or transgendered, how can you really give advice on how to or how NOT to come out? If you're not gay, you dont know how keeping it in the closet FEELS and why someone would WANT to come out. Sorry, that's just my two cents.
2007-02-25 07:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way hun I am afraid to tell people what I am bc they are homophobic,just be careful what happens because
alot of homophobics are idiots,and there are so many murders against us gays and lesbians because they don't approve of what we are,I support you 100%..
2007-02-26 09:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by singlebratty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You find your local/nearest chapter of PFLAG for help and suggestions on coming out to family and friends.
2007-02-25 07:36:25 · answer #3 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try saying to a room of people..Hey im gay.. that should do it...
but seriously all you have to do is be yourself. why do you have to tell anyone, just stop pretending to not being gay, anyone with anything going on will figure it out.but if you need to say it outloud to feel free then start with the people you are closest too...Lets
2007-02-25 07:37:50 · answer #4 · answered by letsget_dangerous 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may have to do face it and deal with the consequences find at least one person that you can lean on
2007-02-25 08:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you don't, eventually people will figure it out. Why do gays have to 'announce' their gayness anyways? Us straight people will figure things out when we wee you kissing your partner or by the way you talk about certain things. Just live your live and feel comfortable in your own skin.
2007-02-25 07:39:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you just do, if they are really your friends, and if your family loves you than they will accept you.
2007-02-25 07:39:26 · answer #7 · answered by man of questions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a costume party dressed in drag and tell them to expect you to be this way from now on.
2007-02-25 07:37:52 · answer #8 · answered by George G 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I am a straight man...and I don't talk about who I go to bed with to my friends and family...so why is it that because you are Gay you have to talk about who you want to go to bed with...
2007-02-25 07:37:36 · answer #9 · answered by Spades Of Columbia 5 · 1⤊ 4⤋