mother n law knows idont like the girl but keeps talking about her in frount of me what a good friend she and good person she is. She has five kids and no daddy yeah what saint. She rubbing her in my face but i dont let know it bothers me if i did,i feel she would be getting what she wants.Now the girl has moved next door to her.i was informed by a family member that this girl is crazy over my husband.his mother tryed to hook them up and i caught him sitting beside her but did not see them doing anything but i inerruped them also so.this was before we had our kids and now this girl is back living beside his mother.I am shure his mother set this up.she has already tore her other sons marriage apart by fixing him up with someone els and he got a divorce this year.husband knows how i feel about this situation i have been dealing with beast for many many years .should i tell husband he cant visit his mother anymore.i am wanting to call it quits he has done nothing to help matter.
2007-02-25 07:25:24 · 4 answers · asked by bree167 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell your husband to grow some balls and stand up for his wife. His mom needs to be put in her place.
2007-02-25 07:41:52 · answer #1 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love your husband? Are you sure that he loves you and only you and only wants to be with you for the rest of his life? NO ONE can BREAK YOU UP, things either start to fall apart and they give up and move on--sometimes they have pushing, but it's not the person who is pushing's fault. It's the woman or the man that took the direction from the pusher.
I understand that you have been more than generous to his mother in this situation and I think you need to stand up to your mother-in-law next time she starts talking about this woman and say, "If she's so wonderful why is she a single mother?" Then pause as she gasps at your "outburst" and continue "Your son and I are happily married and if you can't stand it then we really don't need to visit you and your disapproving ways. If you feel that you can't have me in your life and be happy then you will not have my children in your home either." She'll shut up.
2007-02-25 07:47:40 · answer #2 · answered by Jillie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you got the MIL from hell......first , you have to tell your husband exactly what she is trying to do and how YOU feel about it.
then set down some boundaries.....that he can call him mom..or she can come to VISIT HIM.....but as long as the "seductress" is living next door.....SHE cant be trusted. (dont put the blame on him.....YET!!) i went thru this similiar thing.....told mine that this woman customer was after him...he kept saying NO way....well, bam......she goes after him full force and of course, being a man, he succumbed to her lovings...TELL him IF he loves you, he will NOT subject YOU to this and why put himself in harms way for temptation......if he refuses.or is a mamas boy....you will have to decide if you want to stay.......if he sticks up for his mom he always will....so get out NOW......sorry you even have to deal with this crap.....it is not fun.
god bless.
2007-02-25 07:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by STARZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell hubby we are packing up and moving away from his pyscho momma and her friend.
Good luck!
2007-02-25 07:31:10 · answer #4 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋