ma cousin hv a problem!?

Question

omg! i swear to god ma cosusin is like 7 yrs old n i m 16 she has a problem of touching me! i slapped her like 4 times n i told parents about it she still doesnn stop she tries to put her hand down in my private n get mad n slap her or say no she would stop n strt doin it agen after a wile n she also touches ma boobs like omg!! itss soo embarassing i donno hu tels her about this stuff and shez onli 7 years old. when ever she comes to my house she insists to sleep wid me n she will strt doin to de same thing agen wen she was little i use to let her do it like for 2 or 3 times buh now she makes those wild sounds n i was soo afraid i asked her like y are u doing this shez like i like doin this n she was like it doesnnt matter we are both girls n i was soo surprised n i talked to her mom i donno wah she sed to her buh she doesnn stop she sleep wid me n touches me alomst de whole nite dis is like impossible n wenever she comes over i hv to stay awake to stop her frm doin dis
help me plz!

and i am a girl n shez a girl too!!

Answer 1

Children get taught to touch privates by perverts, hon. It's not your fault, and you need to tell an adult. When my neighbor did that to my sister, we found out that his dad had been touching her like that. She needs help and whoever is teaching her that needs to go to prison so tell someone!

Answer 2

I would stop making a big deal out of it, that only encourages it, when you are sleeping together or cuddling, just tell her softly do not do that right now, it does not feel good, eventually she will get over it. It does not mean necessarily she was molested she may have been peeping and saw this happening and is imitating it and when you get all excited and upset it just re-enforces it because she is getting you to react.
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Don't react strongly, quietly and gently redirect her, when she reaches for ur boobs just say rub my hair instead or say hold my hand i like that. Eventually she will do it less and she will grow out of it. If you make a big deal of it, it will just focus attention where it should not be focused and make things worse.
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I had a grrl living with me and her two year old used to grab for my crotch when she first moved in, i did not over react i would just catch her hand or pick her up and in a few months it stopped.
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Kidz just do stuff and that is life and people try to put too much drama in it.
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Her mom probably realizes it is not a big deal - u r getting a lesson in parenting in the real world.
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btw - calling child protective services is probably the worst possible thing you can do - it can destroy your family and that little grrl will definitely get molested when the government gets control of her life - child protective services is disgusting.
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Answer 3

She is probably being sexually molested. Don't try talking to her parents anymore, most molestation happens from family members or friends of family. Talk to an adult you can trust and someone you know will listen to you. This absolutely needs to be reported! Do not feel ashamed, guilty, or anything about reporting, do it for the sake of her. It will take courage but it is definately the right thing to do. Report! If you are too embarassed to talk to someone or are afraid you will get in trouble call child protective services anonymously and tell them you suspect child abuse in this home.. that you think it is sexual abuse...

Answer 4

talk to her and tell her it is not right to do. if that doesn't help then talk to your parents about it and see what they can do. chances are that since you are a girl and she is a girl she is just interested in you and she will grow out of it. don't allow her to do this though because it is not right. hope this helps. good luck.

Answer 5

just ask the kid y she is doing this strang stuff maby she is bi or a lez and next time she tries to do that slpa her as hard as u can and put her in time out also when ever she has to sleeps over put her in a diffrent room and lock ur bedroom door k or maby she is just couieus.

Answer 6

I think you can come up with a better story than this!