2007-02-25 06:54:05 · 15 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
awwww...you are bringing tears to my eyes!! I am so sorry to hear that. Try and go out with some friends, for distration. I would recommend go to a phsycologist. It's going to take time to heal, but be strong :)
2007-02-25 06:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You need to find hobbies. What interest you? Get wrapped up in that. Keeping busy is the key.
I would not go jumping into another relationship trying to fill the emptiness you are experiencing now. Nothing good can come of that. You will only find yourself comparing the two women, and let's face it....it's not like the two of you broke up. No one will be able to live up to her at this point, and you will leave nothing but broken hearts behind you. Not to mention that you will not find what your looking for. Give yourself all the grieving time you need. You'll know when it is right. I'm terribly sorry for your loss. Take care and God bless.
2007-02-25 15:05:06 · answer #2 · answered by mccmb02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time to get over things like this....I lost a dear friend some years ago.It was very hard the first year. Just take life a day at a time. Try to get out more with friends and let yourself cry and really important,let yourself laugh. Good luck and just keep on living.
2007-02-25 15:01:34 · answer #3 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to reverse the roles and think what you would want for her if you had departed this life too soon. Eventually you will have to move on, although you may never recover fully from this tragedy. On the other hand, you will be a bit more inured the next time a really bad situation presents itself. Good luck, my friend.
2007-02-25 15:00:00 · answer #4 · answered by hansblix222 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all I am so sorry to hear about your loss. She would want you to live the rest of your life happy and moving on. I know it has to be hard but dwelling on her leaving this earth and not living your life is not fair to you. You will never forget her and will always cherrish the love you two shared together. Take time on yourself at first and when you are ready take baby steps. I wish the best of luck to you. Take care.
2007-02-25 16:24:55 · answer #5 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can really do about the pain, it's going to come and you have to accept that. The important thing is to remember your happy times with her and honor her memory more often than you mourn her death. Keep a special place for her in your heart and know that she'll always be with you in spirit if you allow it. Let yourself grieve when you need to, but don't let that grief consume your life. Death hurts everyone it touches and there's nothing we can do about that, unfortunately. In time, this pain will lessen, I promise you that.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
2007-02-25 14:58:55 · answer #6 · answered by OhKatie! 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss of your girlfriend. How sad and i feel for you. Here comes lots of hugs your way. I suggest you seek therapy and counseling to help you get past all of this if need be. I feel you need grief counseling. I wish you the best and hope that with time that you will be able to start to heal and get past this slowly.
2007-02-25 15:27:53 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, it is just going to take time. I would suggest going out and trying to have a good time with friends even if you don't really feel like it. I hope it gets better for you!
2007-02-25 15:04:31 · answer #8 · answered by wondermermaid 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it time it sounds like you may need alot of time to heal yet. Try going out with friends or being with family to help to not feel so lonely. I am so sorry for your loss!!
2007-02-25 15:09:08 · answer #9 · answered by HOT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first i find something to fill the time with so i not have much time to think,,,,, then i think back,of the good thing we did together,,,,,, an then i like to think what tey would do inn my place an ,what to do,, then i look around for another friend, but never for get my other friend that pass
2007-02-25 15:02:54 · answer #10 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋