I feel weird after mastrabation what is it i feel shame a guilt and i feel like i will never do it again (but i do thing next day anyway) is this normal if it is what is it called
2007-02-25 06:43:41 · 6 answers · asked by Brandon B 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Yes, this is quite normal for some people. If you grew up in a family that didn't talk about sex or you somehow got the idea that sex was "dirty", you would have guilt feelings...I know I did.
It may be the "giving in the next day" that makes you feel guilty. What I mean by this is that you have decided it is wrong and you are not going to do it, but you do it and feel guilty because you decided it is wrong.
Instead, make up your mind that masturbation done moderately, is healthy and normal. Then plan where and when you will do it. Not in desperation, trying to keep from doing it, but planning deliberately to do a good thing. Then, do it. After orgasm, thank God for having created you so that you are capable of enjoying such exquisite pleasure.
Good luck and may you have a pleasant life keeping sex in proper perspective
2007-02-25 07:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by Spitzname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you just experienced is the resolution phase of the sexual cycle...This occurs once you attained orgasm and thus, ejaculates. As the resolution phase occurs, the muscles in the body relaxes and it makes you feel that you do not want it anymore...This is true but after, say, 30 mins. You would do it again...This is perfectly normal...
2007-02-25 08:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea its normal maybe ur feel this way b/c u think taht ur parents wouldnt aprove of it if they found out that u masterbate but i think that u should try to stop for 3 days then do it and see how good it feels and i dont think that ull feel the same way again after that
2007-02-25 07:29:16 · answer #3 · answered by d93end 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup i feel this way sometimes and this is what i say to myself... ah god i will never do this again because u feel empty and in pain after u do it sometimes but u have the urge to do it again the next day
2007-02-25 07:31:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yelp some guilt of loneliness, an empty feeling, a pleasurably moment but not a real vagina to ejaculate in.
2007-02-25 07:12:00 · answer #5 · answered by Goldfish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its normal i guy usually feels more satisfied if he has sex with a women your body tells you what your doing is not right....but its better than getting a girl preg b4 ur ready!
2007-02-25 07:40:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋