My wife shaves when going out alone. Could that mean she's cheating?

Answer 1

Puh-leeeeeze. Do you take a shower before leaving the house? Do you comb your hair? Do you shave? Put on nice clothes? Put on aftershave or use collogne? Do you brush your teeth? Use mouthwash? Does all of this mean you're cheating? Of course not. But the part of your question that raises a few questions on my end is the part about her going out alone. If it's during the day and she comes home with a car full of groceries then I wouldn't worry! If it's at night and she doesn't come home until 2am, then her shaving isn't what I would be worried about.

Answer 2

LoL Well you took the darn words right out of my mouth! I feel the SAME EXACT WAY!!!!!!! I see this crap happen ALL THE TIME! My hubs is currently 'over there' as well and it's been a year now and still has a few months to go. I can not even begin to think about another man, ever! We have 4 wonderful kids together and I wouldn't change our life for anything in the world. I am NOT a single mom just because he is deployed! I am not single in any way! I am simply a mom and a wife and my husband is there for our kids even thousands of miles away. He is there for me even when he isn't physically here. Our connection and our relationship is very strong in every possible way. It is so sad because I talk to my hubs everyday and he tells me that pretty much all of his soldiers are going through divorces. Their wives have either cheated on them while they have been over there, figured out that being an army wife 'isn't for them', or they just want to be whores and party all the time. I can not understand this crap! I just want to get those b*tches by their hair and b*tch slap them over and over and hope that I can knock some sense into them! It is SOOOO frustrating that so many people think that ALL military wives are like that. Well that is SO not the case. I am one of THE MOST faithful and committed army wives out there! They are putting their lives on the line for you, me, and their children. THE VERY LEAST we can do as military wives is be true to our husbands!!!!!

Answer 3

You can't answer that question based on her shaving alone. You would have to have more information than just that.

Maybe her clothes, especially underclothes are more comfortable when she shaves. Maybe it just makes her feel better, or maybe she does it so she can come home and give you something... Like I said, you can't base it on that alone.

I go out, to bars without my husband. I used to do it all the time and he stayed home with our daughter. We don't like going out to the same places/bars. I would shower, shave (to include below the belt), put makeup on, dress nicely, fix my hair. The works. Why? Because if you look good, it helps you feel good and whats the point of going out to have fun if you don't FEEL GOOD?? There isn't one. None of this ever meant I was cheating and my husband NEVER questioned it because our relationship was built on trust. If we can't trust each other then we can't love each other.

Answer 4

No this could only mean that she wants to shave and look nice and presentable and all and then again this could mean she is cheating and all come out and ask her why do you shave when going out alone? and why don't you do it for me like ask her she what response you get be forward and direct and firm and let her no you are seriouse that you are really concrened and all that you really love her but want to no why she dose this if it is only her going out.

Answer 5

Depends where she goes alone... What does she do, alone? Doesn't mean she is cheating, but then again we don't know your wife. We didn't marry her.

Most of us in here don't know her from the get go. Hope you find your answer soon. I am not going to judge someone I don't know. Sorry, doesn't work that way for me. Good luck.

I shave down below. I like it. If I don't shave then it gets itchy from stubble.

Answer 6

Dont' be so paranoid. Shaving is a act of good hygiene. Would you go out without wiping your butt after using the toilet? Unless she staying out all night or getting phone calls at 4AM while in bed every night don't jump to conclusions for every little thing she does. If you start becoming a controlling husband - you won't have her very long.

Answer 7

Shaves what? Her back, chin stubble, and 5 o'clock shadow?

Yup - that's a sure sign she's makin' ready for someone.

If it's her hoo-hah, how many times have you walked in on her shaving her hey-nonnie-nonnie before she goes out?

Work on your trolling skills.

Answer 8

Woman like to look good anytime we go out... even going to the store... It has nothing to do with cheating... it's just because when we look good... we feel good... So to answer your question honestly... I don't know if she is cheating on you or not... she might just like to feel clean when she going out... But the best thing for you to do is to talk to her... if you have insecurities with her going out without you... let her know... try and find out if maybe you could hang with her one night and see what it's like when she goes out... you might find that it is all innocent and all the time and energy you spent worrying about this was all wasted.

Answer 9

Depends on what she's shaving!

Answer 10

If its her bikini area, I would say probably. If its her legs, probbaly not. I shave my legs every other day even if I'm just sitting around the house doing nothing.