Do you do this?? ++++++++++++++++++++++++++?

Question

When you have an argument with your S.O. but everything is solved and everything is fine afterwards, do you still think about it?

I was in an argument with my boyfriend lastnight. But it's solved and we're not fighting anymore.

I could hardly sleep lastnight though because I kept replaying the whole thing over and over in my head. And I still am. I hate that I do that.

Do you girls do this too? And do you guys do this? Or do you guys forget about it and act like it never happened?

Answer 1

oh wow,yes I do,I dont let things go easily,especially if I was hurt. My husband can wake up the next day and be like nothing ever happened(I guess that can be a good thing though,always loving and forgiving,forgetting)

Answer 2

Can't forget it happened. And I replay it over too. But mine happened over a decade ago.

Answer 3

Breathe. Yeah, it normal. Just try and focus your attention to something else. It's obviously not resolved in your mind, or you wouldn't keep thinking about it. Maybe you need to be able to talk about it a bit longer.

Answer 4

I do that with everything- that's why my DR put me on Klonipin!

I would get upset about something, and go over and over and over it all night.
I hated it, now I am a little better.

it is part of OCD

Answer 5

Yes I do that all the time, not only with fights with my significant other but all fights

Answer 6

guys forget all about it within seconds. women remember it forever, and bring it up over and over again

Answer 7

we forget like it never happened. try to do something to keep you occupied and not remembering that event

Answer 8

women remember everything..men usually just forget...seems thats human nature..

Answer 9

There probably are some unresolved issues.

Answer 10

Most girls do it...most guys don't