My bff and i just stopped being friends cuzz we decided we didnt like eachother[[i no thats really weird]]and shes turning all of my friends against me and telling them lies about me.If they wont talk 2 me then how should i tell them that they dont have to choose between Me and Her.
2007-02-25 06:22:44 · 8 answers · asked by Madi514 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Very elementary..
To me....
if a friend can do that...and others are believing her... i don't think those "ppl - people" are worth even talking to.
If they really were you're friend and your best friend's. Then they would of asked both of you guy's opinion of the problem before even choosing sides..
I am very independent. I do not like to count on others, thus, i admit i don't have very close friends.
Which provides me that safer feelings sometimes. Where i know, that i won't have to solve the problems of loosing a bff. Instead, just a friend.
i don't quite understand your question...
Are you asking how to stop it?
Well.. There's not much you can do about it.
Maybe tell your mom to call her mom and talk about that she's giving you a really hard time.
Perhaps, it's a lesson and fate to learn to really see what's inside a person.
Because you didn't tell how it happened, like because you took her pencil or whatever, i can't really help that much.
But if i was your position, i would just ignore it, find others who i can be better friends with, but at the same time, look for signs that will prove a good friend and not a back stabber.I would also find a parent of teacher, counselor to help a bit with the feelings.
Remember this quote:
A True Friend walks in when others walk out.
Seems like your friends are walking out and going in for your bff not you..
Just proves... their not who you thought they were...
2007-02-25 06:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by Xiao 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think thats very childish and elementryish of ur bff. Why dont you tell her straight up why shes doing this? Confront her and tell your other friends what shes saying isn't true.
2007-02-25 06:26:08 · answer #2 · answered by dayumnzitsme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her shes just trying to get in your head.
And the people that dont like you just bc of the things she says you dont need to jhaev anything to do with anyway.
they are just stupid kids and you dont need to worry about them.
Find yourself a real true friend who wont turn against you.....
2007-02-25 06:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by THAT GIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just end up telling them. If they like you both they will stay friends with you both...
sucks this way but you'll find out who your true friends are.
2007-02-25 06:31:49 · answer #4 · answered by savanna o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They aren't your friends if she is turning that many people against you that fast. Find some new friends and move on..
2007-02-25 06:27:06 · answer #5 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well me and one of my friends got in a fight so i told everyone who she likes and stuff. you should forget her and get a new bff
2007-02-25 06:28:52 · answer #6 · answered by secret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are your friends they will listen if they are not then cut the strings and find new friends...
and look up the definition of friend.
get a girl to kick her *** for you!
2007-02-25 06:26:26 · answer #7 · answered by Derrick Zooolander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are really your friends,they won't listen.
2007-02-25 06:26:59 · answer #8 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋