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In my country some people do not have real arguments to blame me or to accuse me. At one point of time they felt so much inferior because of my development and they started to blame, insult me, accuse me and confuse and distract me. So they made so much presure on me that I really do not feel sane anymore.
How is possible that such losing people gain advantage by unfair methods instead of accepting that I am successfull. it is like some sport game winned with tricks and insults.

2007-02-25 06:16:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science Sociology

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well i guess they dont want to see u successful cuz their not
so they insult u to hurt ur pride and u feel horrible and maybe that will affect ur success
here's something about life: there are people out there who think their the best and when they see someone better they do whatever they can to make themselves the better
dont worry about it...if u dont let their teasing get to u then u will continue to be successful

2007-02-25 07:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by tigerkween623 2 · 0 0

You hit the nail on the head in your explanation...they felt inferior.

Stop caring what they think as it's not truth what they sputter at you, it's their own insecurities, which you can not fix in them. Instead of arguing, simply ask them "Why do you feel the need to insult me?" or "Are you feeling better now that you are tearing me down?"

These are non-blaming or aggressive questions, but rather questions for them to do some introspect on their own behavior.

2007-02-25 14:27:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Some people know this as a way of existing and no other. They put others down and make others look lees than them self just to keep them self on top.

That is exactly how my sister got where she is by doing just that. Sometimes it works for them and sometimes it doesn't.

2007-02-25 14:25:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Those people have an inferiority complex - that's why they have to resort to insults to soothe their fragile and bruised egos.

2007-02-25 15:28:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

yeah.. u r rite...
when someone insults u , u r losing ur energy level and the other person takes tat(ur) energy.... when that person gets more energy, it may lead to gain more confidence... then he will start insulting u more to get more and more energy.

2007-02-25 14:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by b bizaare to win the world... 2 · 0 0

how come you let them win? people use all evil ways to win! they could not beat on your turf, so they got you to theirs...
go on with your life, show them you do not care, all the insults that they make are just like windmills... you made it! just go forward! and let them choke on their jealousy and evny.

2007-02-25 14:21:28 · answer #6 · answered by Nadinette 2 · 0 0

And some people are looking for a *** whooping

2007-02-25 14:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Do you hear yourself ranting? It's obvious that you think you are vastly superior to your acquaintences. Get over yourself.

2007-02-25 14:22:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 2

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