hiiiiiiiii how ya doing? do not be alarmed by this, but i am only twelve years old but very curious. a simple question about sex: DOES IT HURT? it's not like i'm planning on having intercourse or anything, im just wondering. i hav had sex education in school and learned all about it except the feeling. my mom told me no, but i don't actually believe her cuz women say their vaginas tear. honest answers please?
2007-02-25 06:09:39 · 7 answers · asked by jilly babe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it depends. some girls feel no pain, some girls feel some. but usualle only the first time and even then it is really nothing to be scared of. if you have the right partner you will both go carefully. Most girls are afraid of some pain for their first time, but my mom solved that by saying; look, when you stub your toe you don't go yelling the neighbourhood toghether, now will you? Sex is meant to be pleasant to both and if it is not you can learn, experiment ,and even ask a dokter if you really do hurt bad. The girls talking about tearing their vagina have probably watched some nasty birthing video recently... and even that almost never happens to women. But I do advise you to wait. it is way more fun when you're ... say about 17 yrs of age... so... be patient.
2007-02-25 06:21:04 · answer #1 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends. I had one friend who had sex, and cried for hours cause it hurt so much. And a second girl friend of mine said it didn't hurt at all. With me, it hurt a little bit. Honestly, practice, practice practice. It gets easier as you go. Just make sure that the guy you decide to sleep with respects you, and he'll totally understand.
Use protection and lubricant, and it wont be so bad. Just take it slow
2007-02-25 06:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by Hannah 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on when you're ready or not. If you are, it will probably not hurt, but if you aren't, it could. When the hymen tears, there will be a little bit of bleeding. I suggest waiting on sex, until you are absolutely sure you are ready.
2007-02-25 06:15:41 · answer #3 · answered by Meredith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a girl, the first and maybe second time will hurt. After that, it won't hurt anymore.
2007-02-25 06:15:01 · answer #4 · answered by Beth T 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is awful dont try it untill your at least 18
2007-02-25 06:21:54 · answer #5 · answered by Bad Mood 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the girl. Most times, No, it doesn't hurt! Please make sure you wait!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-25 06:13:23 · answer #6 · answered by justlookin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It hurt me the first couple of times. But please wait. PLEASE!
2007-02-25 06:15:37 · answer #7 · answered by Stumped 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋