Ok, so about two weeks ago, I met this girl and we started hanging out. I think she is one of the coolest people I've ever met - she's really pretty, she's funny, and I love her style. She kind of reminds me of a guy with the way she acts, talks, dresses (she's a total tomboy.) Hanging out with her is like being with a guy.
Anyway, I find myself thinkin about her a lot - I can't imagine doing anything sexual with her, but I always wonder where she is, and wish that I could be hanging out with her. So all this obsessing has me wondering whether I am like, subconsiouly sexually attracted to her? Or maybe because I'm at an all-women's college I'm feeling guy depraved and when I'm around anything or anyone that resembles a guy I go crazy.
I really don't think that I'm at all sexually attracted to her (I looove guys), but I really admire her and wish that I could be more like her. This sounds so pathetic and weird and it's creeping me out. I'm usually so confident in who I am. Advice?
2007-02-25 05:59:41 · 9 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You just have yourself a girl crush. Nothing wrong with that at all! I'm a lesbian...and sometimes I have man-crushes. Just dudes that I admire and think are super cool, but don't want anything to do w/ them sexually.
2007-02-25 11:12:23 · answer #1 · answered by dementors_suck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong in admiring another Woman. You're fine, don't make too much of it. Lots of Women admire each other but don't have the heart to say it because they're afraid if someone finds out, that people are going to question their sexuality. You admire her like you said because you like her style and her personality. I see nothing wrong in that. :)
2007-02-25 06:11:33 · answer #2 · answered by Cricket 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you're really not at all sexually attracted to her then there's nothing to ask about - you're friends and that's cool, just make sure not to act like a total flake around her. she's just a person like you so don't get all weird about it.
even if you are sexually attracted to her then there's nothing wrong with that. if she feels the same, great. if not, it's like anyone else not liking you *that* way
either way you'll live and learn something important about life!
2007-02-25 06:04:26 · answer #3 · answered by Mike H 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I agree with Laura...there really is nothing wrong with admiring a person and wanting to be more like them...the point you need to start worrying about is if you were to start following her and sh!t like that...as for you not having feelings for her...maybe like you said subconsciously you do...maybe your bi...and can love boys and still like girls...there is nothing wrong with that either...just play it cool so you don't scare her away...good luck....
2007-02-25 06:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you're not attracted to her sexually then it sounds like you've just met someone you want to be very good friends with. I don't see any problem there...
2007-02-25 06:07:49 · answer #5 · answered by carora13 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Its called a girl crush.
2007-02-25 06:33:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
try not to be upset with your female friends, because most of the
m will be there with you, and for you, when everybody else walk
away.
2007-02-25 06:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww. you dont need help. theres nuthin wrong with that
2007-02-25 06:03:12 · answer #8 · answered by Laura J 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
come to mama I"ll make you love to lick my pussy my email lisaweed32@yahoo.com
2007-02-25 06:49:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋