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Do you think that the better you look the better life will be.Im still in school and I noticed that all the good looking people are like stars.Women have it even better than the men.I've witnessed and heard stories about good looking girls who never really came to class get good grades while the averages looking people got what they deserved.

2007-02-25 05:47:07 · 5 answers · asked by congresspark4life 1 in Society & Culture Other - Society & Culture

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Having been on both sides of this fence I can honestly say that the better a person looks, the better they are treated.

About 5 years ago I was morbidly obese, sloppy and never took any time to make my self look attractive. I found store clerks rude and any one else in a service related job indifferent. I interviewed for several jobs that I was more than qualified for and was turned down, mainly, I believe now, because of my appearance since fat people (women mostly) are perceived as lazy even though I worked more hours a week than most men.

Now I am thinner, fit and take a lot of pride in my appearance and these same people (service employees in general) act like I am a totally different person. I get prompt service with good attitudes and smiles not sideways glances and snickers. I now know that I can have about any job I want (with in reason) and currently have 3 that I love. I am working less hours, making more money and with greater satisfaction.

I am not saying this is right, just that it is how our society is. The hardest thing I have ever found to teach my girls about life is not to judge a person by their appearance BUT at the same time realize that people are judging you by your appearance.

2007-02-25 06:10:18 · answer #1 · answered by T 4 · 1 0

No. I am not exactly the most popular girl in school but I know that a better look better life is not always true. What if they don't like your new look or they think your fake or something like that? You'll have a reputation but not a good one. If you want to change who you look for yourself then that a better reason then for someone else.They may notice you or not but live for yourself not for others.

2007-02-25 05:56:55 · answer #2 · answered by honeyluvsyou2004 2 · 0 0

No,better brain, better life.Clever people that want to succeed will go the full hog,and money makes one that little bit more attractive.These good looking girls don't usually amount to anything if they are thick unless they can latch on to someone.If your both good looking and clever,well the world better look out!

2007-02-25 07:14:22 · answer #3 · answered by Countess 5 · 0 0

Good point. There are a lot of superficial people on Earth. A lot of them think that "good looks" equate to more business, or better public relations. It's all a crock!

2007-02-25 05:51:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

yes

2007-02-25 06:10:52 · answer #5 · answered by T H 1 · 0 0

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