I'm a women who is very love'n and caring to my friends...Yet,for som strang reason i get hurt...stabbed in the back..I'm at the point that i should forget the thought of a women friendship..and trust a gay mans friendship.I dont want to feel this way pls help!I'm really missing a true friend to chat laugh with even cry on one and another shoulders....go out for coffe shop together ect..
2007-02-25 05:34:18 · 9 answers · asked by Carrie-ann M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Trust is a touchy issue. I never completly trust people, female or male. When a true friend comes along you'll know. Just remember to always keep somethings to yourself and never fully expose everything.
2007-02-25 05:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by Noemie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know just how you feel. So what's wrong with having a gay man for a friend? They are loads of fun! It will at least fill the void until another woman comes along with whom you care to put your trust. I have only one true female friend and the rest are males. My advice is to reach out and keep looking until someone who has similar interests comes along. Don't worry if she is a he. My gay friends are very close to my heart and I wouldn't trade them for all the money in this world. We laugh and cry together, shop together, talk about everything together, and have mutual respect for each others feelings. When I have hard times, my male friends are always there to encourage and comfort me. My one female friend keeps in touch via email from another state, but she is my friend through and through. We just can't see each other because of where she lives. When I compare the males with her, about the only difference I find is the sexual preference. Honesty, loyalty, trust, and honor along with compassion abounds in my friends. Give some thought to those around you and choose a friend or two with real values like those and, male or female, you'll not be disappointed.
2007-02-25 05:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by froggsfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend some time doing things that you enjoy and forget friends for a while, spend time cheering yourself up and if the next friend you meet does not make you feel the same way then do not bother with him/her.
Just to say aswell, gay friends can let you down like straight friends purely because they are human and not because of their sexual orientation,you're in danger of limiting your frienship options and you can never predict where you'll meet that special friend
2007-02-25 06:04:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to really get to know a person before you become good friends. I know this girl who I have known 4ever, and she constantly talks behind my back. I have this other friend who is the most sweetest and most gentle person you could ever meet. She would never do anything to hurt anybody. Look hard, youll find that special friend somewhere. Good Luck!!!
2007-02-25 05:52:35 · answer #4 · answered by beautiful_baylee_xoxo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really miss someone to chat and laugh and share with then you are going to have to take the bad with the good. Women are jealous creatures and they were born to gossip. Keep that in mind, keep your personal feelings to yourself if they could hurt you or someone else, and enjoy the time you spend with girlfriends. You cannot change women. It's their nature. @8-)
2007-02-25 05:40:59 · answer #5 · answered by Dovey 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, My friends did the same things to me...I gave up on having girl friends and now I really want one....someone who wont hurt me anymore....funny how you sound just like me...I have my boyfriend of two years and I love him with all my heart, I also have a 3 year old daughter and she is wonderful!! But it would be so nice to have a girl friend to chill with....I'm just too scared to be hurt again....
2007-02-25 05:45:32 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U can hang out with them but i wouldn't trust them with secrets or any private life things.
i have a friend Lea and a friend Kaycee. Kaycee i can trust because she is always there for me and backing me up no matter what and Lea is just a friend i hang out with i never tell her anything because she has stabbed me in the back before and told people my secrets and never backs me up in a problem.
2007-02-25 05:39:32 · answer #7 · answered by Lilisgr8 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have just picked the wrong women to trust. having a male friend is not a bad thing, whether they are gay or straight.
2007-02-25 05:39:52 · answer #8 · answered by mellijenk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don`t trust any one who you talk to a long conv. coz that what bring the trust for most peolpe and some they get hurt! so if you wanna trust some one make sure first that he don`t talk about his friend to you ! if he talks about him , he will talks about you!
2007-02-25 05:55:41 · answer #9 · answered by pearl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋