I want to know why every guy I meet or try to be friends with still always crosses the line and hits on me?? I am a good looking girl but I feel like I don't deserve to be treated like this. I respect my friends and would never make a rude comment or grab on them, or if I drank too much......cross that line. It is offensive because I feel like I can't trust the guys I date and now my friends that are guys can't respect any boundaries. Why do you guys do this? Is sex all you really care about?
2007-02-25 05:23:55 · 11 answers · asked by l'il mama 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh by the way they are not old guys. I am 34 and my friends are all ages. Thats why it suprises me because I would assume older guys wouldn't do this but it seems all ages do this to me.
2007-02-25 05:32:58 · update #1
Also some of these guys I have known for YEARS!!!
2007-02-25 05:35:18 · update #2
one word .. lack of respect for your friendship and if the guy friends you have don't respect your friendship enough to keeptheir hands to themselves then i'd suggest dropping them from your friends list ... if you wanted intimacy with them, you'd let them know and until then they should refrain from their sexual urges with respect to you.
2007-02-25 05:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES sex is all they really care about and who can blame them if you are a good looking girl they are going to go after you. Be happy that your pretty and guys want you. Some girls never get looked at and wish they did . I have the same problem as you sometimes. and i always think its not my fault and yes i like that i am pretty but i just wish they would respect us more
2007-02-25 13:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by pretty_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys your age are a big ol' bag a hormones - *raging* hormones. They're always on the prowl whether they like to admit it or not. Always want to see how far they can take it. If you're getting too many of these offers I'd take a look at the way your dressing & acting. Flirting leads to more flirting, know what I mean.
2007-02-25 13:29:52 · answer #3 · answered by just Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Glad to here that you have some standards .Keep them .
Raise your ideas of guy to a higher level ,Not what your so called friends chose to be.They will out grow this in time. Be careful on the drinking ,it takes you places you don't want to be.
Good luck hope this helps
2007-02-25 13:34:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, they sound like young guys and yes, that's pretty much on a young guys mind all the time. Just let them know your boundaries and tell them that you won't put up with their nonsense. You are in control of this situation. Just speak up for yourself!
2007-02-25 13:27:54 · answer #5 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One simple answer "No respect for the lady." Now do you really want a friend that does not respect you.
2007-02-25 16:05:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure that's what it is.....when I was young, sex was constantly on my mind. But I applaud your decision to say no and make your stand. Eventually they'll get the hint that no means no....or slap the crap out of them. Best of luck to you.
2007-02-25 13:32:22 · answer #7 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but maybe you dress provacatively or have an appearace as if you want attention from guys so they give it to you?
2007-02-25 13:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by Its Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some of them yes but not all do that
2007-02-25 13:29:51 · answer #9 · answered by Ty D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i only can say one thing ...........all that means that u are HOT:)
lady maybe u need 2 find other friends....
2007-02-25 13:30:20 · answer #10 · answered by Donatas B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋