what should i do?
2007-02-25 05:22:57 · 30 answers · asked by -Young Breezy♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to stand up for yourself, what's gonna happen when a guy you like wants to do more (much more personal things)? Are you gonna be able to tell him you don't want to? This is an easy problem to learn how to make your stand with guys and let them know what's okay and not okay. Be firm, he'll be over it in about 2 seconds.
2007-02-25 05:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Tawnya♥ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps you shouldn't have a boyfriend. I don't mean to be harsh, but if you can't muster up the courage to tell your boyfriend something simple like that, then you are not mature enough to handle a relationship. You will invite a heap of trouble. What happens when he wants to go farther then that? Will you let him, despite the fact that you're uncomfortable, because you've already let him touch your chest? Grow up now, and let him know by pushing his hand away, and telling him that you don't like it. Tell him the truth, that you were too shy to tell him before. He will respect you more and your relationship will be much better with honesty.
2007-02-25 05:28:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Being wanted feels so good-and may sometimes cloud our decisions. Learning to speak out is a very brave move and one you must make. Being honest with yourself and being strong enough to stand up for your feelings is going to be needed in many future situations, so call this practice.. Act as if your not scared and guess what you won’t be, believe me YOU do have the courage you were born with it. Go for a walk or meet for a cup of coffee let him know how you feel-any gentleman would be impressed by your clarity, if he does not understand or does not honor your wishes- he is not worth your body or your time!!
2007-02-25 05:48:00 · answer #3 · answered by golfalots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him.
Also, be confident that many relationships start off with one or both partners not liking to be touched in particular areas or at all. It may take quite some time before that unpleasantness goes away (could be months or years depending on how old you are and how experienced you are). So don't let him tell you that it is at all abnormal not to like it. If you are not ready, you are not ready.
2007-02-25 05:54:54 · answer #4 · answered by lawomicron 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh, if he's your boyfriend you should be able to tell him how you feel, otherwise I dont think the two of you should be together. He's not going to stop till you say something, cause he probably has no clue you dont like it. It turns me on, when my boyfriend touches me, any where.
Obviously you're young, and if your not ready, you're not ready. Tell him though girl. If he cares about you, he'll stop. Plus if you both talk about it, it'll make you feel more comfortable with him, and bring the two of you closer together. He should understand
2007-02-25 05:27:22 · answer #5 · answered by Hannah 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You better get up the nerve to tell him you don't like for him to touch you there because when he starts touching you elsewhere and maybe tries to do more you may not be able to tell him to stop then either and you may end up in a heap of trouble.
2007-02-25 05:29:43 · answer #6 · answered by Wilma S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best is to get over it. As a man I know that 99.999999% of those you could have as your boy friends would want to touch you in that area. How many of them could you reject on this pretext. You may be lucky to have a considerate boy friend who really cares about you. In that case, and you dont want to tell him directly, then find a place on his body which he doesnt like being touched. And when he objects, thats the cue for you to pour out your own misery.
2007-02-25 05:41:51 · answer #7 · answered by shehzad k 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you would be wonderful with the suitable volume of will capability and if he's advantageous adequate to no longer tension you to have intercourse. a guy can touch your chest and make out with you without desiring to have intercourse. be attentive to your limits and ascertain he's attentive to them additionally till you're arranged. adult men are nicer then television and different memories have lead on. If he likes you he will comprehend and wait. yet you would be ok if he touches your chest. you're able to have relaxing without having intercourse or going previous kissing
2016-12-18 10:43:20 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this touching bothers you, you have to get the courage to tell him to stop! He, no doubt, is rather enjoying it, I'm sure. It will only continue if you allow it and you will be shown more respect if you make him stop. It is your body and your right to your own space. He is taking advantage of that and also of your weakness in lacking the courage to stop him. It will get worse and he'll try to touch more and more of you. This is the natural urge for sex. Find that backbone of yours and tell him! If you were ready for that sort of thing, it wouldn't bother you. But it does, soooo...................You know what to do, honey!
2007-02-25 05:34:56 · answer #9 · answered by froggsfriend 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Tell him your not ready for any kind of touching and that if he could please not do it, it makes you feel odd, but tell him it does not mean you don't care about him and if he breaks up with you over this always remember he was after you for one thing in the first place and he is not worth it anymore
2007-02-25 05:27:51 · answer #10 · answered by Gina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋