I have been dating my guy for about 5 months. Everything was WONDERFUL for the 1st 3 months but then I woke up one morning with this thought in my head that I didnt love him anymore. He is a great guy, wonderful personality, great looking, great living...all in all amazing guy. Anyways, the doc ended putting me on some anxiety meds to calm the anxiety that I was having (causing me not to sleep, eat, or move)
Things have been getting better, he is the 1st "nice guy" I have dated and I am learning to appreciate this type of lifestyle. I want to spend my life with him but for some reason feel as though "I am not going to marry him", or "I dont want to marry him?" and I dont know why.....
Am I scared of commitment, anxiety issues, just dont love him anymore?
So many questions are roling through my head...
Am I still in love with my ex?
Do I just want to be with him cause he is that good guy?
Any suggestions?
Thank You!
2007-02-25 05:14:01 · 5 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well first of all,be honest to yourself deep down inside you know the answers..Perhaps something happened to you in the past.Or you perhaps your tummy no longer has the butterfly tingle no more.I would say...get a close friend chat a bit...open your heart and ask her/him perhaps why do i feel the way i do!
2007-02-25 05:28:26 · answer #1 · answered by Carrie-ann M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this is a phase your going through....so you need to consider that. If you dump him, chances are that he's not going to wait around for you to take him back.....and you may lose a good thing. I've heard things described this way: Guys are like a parking spaces, all the good ones are taken and what's left is the handicapped. Think about this very carefully before making any decisions, that could quite literally affect the rest of your life. Best of luck to you.
2007-02-25 13:24:57 · answer #2 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is only been 5 months so why are you having thoughts of am I or am I not going to marry this guy?
I think you get yourself worked up over things with all the questions rather than living life naturally. Slow down and just enjoy...
Good luck!
2007-02-25 13:20:15 · answer #3 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not get some counseling and get some help sorting out these issues? If he's a good guy and you are having problems with anxiety, you should seek some help to figure out why you are pulling away. After all, why fight being with someone who is good to you?
2007-02-25 13:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because the guy is nice, doesn't mean you should commit your life to him. You know in your mind already if you want to wake up next to this guy when your 60. Trust your instincts.
If you feel there is no future, then you need to let him go. You don't want to waste his time or yours. I know it will hurt, but trust me, in the long run, it's for the better.
2007-02-25 13:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋