Theres this girl, and she thinks shes my friend, but i really dont like her, and she wont go AWAY! shes fat and ugly, and REALLY loud! shes eccentric and i think she has OCD or something cause she wont SHUT UP and LEVE ME ALONE! HELP ME!!!!!
2007-02-25 05:12:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
AWWWWW...well yo ucould try to be less available...like when she calls to ask if she can come over or if you want to hang out, just tell her you dont feel good or that you cant but then make sure you dont go out with one of your other friends cos she might see you out and be even more hurt. The on ething you dont want to do is hurt her feelins because those things that a way of coming back and biting you in the *** later in life, you never know she could be the one signing your paychecks one day....so try slowky but surely fading her out of your life....dont return her texts, dont ask her to hang out, eventually she will ask you what is up and in the nicest way, you can just tell her that you dont appreciate how loud she is and that she needs to tone it down a bit because she was getting to be too much for you so you just needed a break...there are nice ways to tell someone that they are too much for you...you dont have to broadcast it to the world, or you could try to hand write her a letter...it will be just for her to read when she is alone and then you can cll her after you ahve given her some time to read it and find out if she wants to talk about what you said in the letter or if she wants to end your friendsip....either way, she will be the one ending the friendship so you wont feel bad or she will want to work on being a better friend.....give the letter thing a shot, it has worked plenty a time for me and i have better and stronger friendships because of it.....fat people need friends too! The true test of a friendship is if you can be honest with your friends when everryone else around her is lying to her
2007-02-25 05:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by o4_babygirl_o4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you just be kind to her and be her friend? Loud can be obnoxious, but so can being snobbish and rude. You might be able to get her to make needed changes in the way she acts if you exercise patience and kindness to show her the way. Otherwise she'll just get her feelings hurt and continue acting the way she acts now. Carefully select your words and talk to her as a friend about her actions and try to make a difference by your kind influence. The greatest gift from above is love. This is a way you could use that gift. If not, then one day you might have someone you really admire shove you aside and be ugly to you because to them, you are ugly and obnoxious. What goes around comes around! Let her be who she is and give and effort into softening up some of her rough edges. You'll find you'll feel better about yourself by helping her out. I dare you to try and make a difference!
2007-02-25 05:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by froggsfriend 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow are you imature. Try telling her you don't enjoy her company. Tell her the truth. If she keeps hanging out with you then what are YOU doing to give her false hope of a friendship with you? It sounds like if you get her out of your life, you are doing her a favor. I wouldn't want a friend like you who talks behind my back but is nice to my face. Maybe you should work on your own behavior instead of everyone elses.
2007-02-25 05:29:20 · answer #3 · answered by l'il mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me I think that you should avoid her and give the hint that you don't want to be around her. If that doesn't work then you shoul tell her.
2007-02-25 05:58:56 · answer #4 · answered by lynette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not ocd... I have real ocd. Please don't use it as an insult.
2016-01-22 17:44:04 · answer #5 · answered by nekoatsumefan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her how you feel...
2007-02-25 05:21:51 · answer #6 · answered by kateanater94 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋