hes been begging me since we got married which was 2 weeks ago and I don't know if I should do it
2007-02-25 05:11:59 · 52 answers · asked by sparkle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You may as well, you obviously have LOTS of free time on your hands. Otherwise you wouldn't have bothered to post this inane
question.
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2007-02-25 05:15:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do it when you are ready. And also tell him he will remember it years from now if he will remeber how much he begged you first.
Of course, if it's a convenience marriage, sex it's not obligatory.
Anyway, he's sounds as a nice guy if he asks you instead of yelling at you. Since he's so nice you can boil him a little more.HA!
Or if you are bothered by the place you're staying then get a honeymoon away somewhere isolated in a mountain chalet or something where you can feel both together as couple, without any pressure.
And if you don't want to save sex, which is different then tell him and he must understand you.Did you make sex in the past and you disliked it?Take it slow anyway. Is your husband a white guy?Your hesitation comes from this ?
2007-02-25 05:17:11 · answer #2 · answered by ParaskeveTuriya 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you have to ask this question, you were NOT ready for marriage. Sex is an important part of a relationship. It is something you want to share with the one you Love. Did you know he can get a Divorce on the grounds of you not fulfilling your marraige Vows? Why do you NOT want to have Sex with your husband is the main question. If it is because of sickness or inability to have Sex is one thing, but just to with hold it from him, is selfish.. Enjoy your Life and show your husband you Love him not only with Sex but many different ways.
2007-02-25 05:20:21 · answer #3 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why you are questioning this. You are married and sex is an important part of feeling close to each other and bonding as a couple. If you are afraid or nervous, be honest with your husband and take it slow.
2007-02-25 05:18:54 · answer #4 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't. He'll just start expecting it.
That's a dangerous precedent in marriage - a man thinking he's going to get sex.
No, stand shoulder-to-shoulder with so many of your fellow married sisters and don't ever give in to requests for sex from your husband. Heck the fact that he is still asking shows he hasn't be properly trained. It's the only way to control men and get what you want from them, right?
2007-02-25 05:19:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
OF COURSE YOU SHOULD HAVE SEX WITH YOUR NEW HUSBAND!!!
Sorry for shouting, but, really.. did you actually think you could marry a guy and not give him any? That's the whole POINT of getting married!!!
Give him some TONIGHT, please!!!
And remember,if you won't give him some... the next woman will!!!
2007-02-26 12:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you marry? Sex is part of the marriage relationship. If you are unwilling to be married, seek an annulment. If you want to be married, seek counselling immediately. You really should have known about this BEFORE marriage.
2007-02-25 05:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by Jack 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should. Thats what a husband and wife does. If you weren't interested in having sex with him you shouldnt have married him. And if you don't have sex with him you won't be together too long.
2007-02-25 05:14:43 · answer #8 · answered by x_ampz_x 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you married a man for so many things and sex is one of them and perhaps most important of them. so you are asking this question here when you not asked while marrying second time.so enjoy new life full of fun and sex and forget other things like hesitation.wish u a very happy honeymoon
2007-02-25 05:19:34 · answer #9 · answered by umashankarpandey2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u for real. I don't see a problem as to why your holding out. You are married, aren't you. Sounds like you have control issues and if your not careful he'll seek others to get his jollies off. Geez, some people.
2007-02-25 05:16:18 · answer #10 · answered by trojan 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You better or he will find someone else that he can get it from.. He can also file for a divorce and have your marriage annulled because you are not being a wife to him in every since of the way..
2007-02-25 05:15:41 · answer #11 · answered by Mary O 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋