Sexual harassment?

Question

After school, my friend Joanne kept annoying Tommy(not his real name) and made him a little angry. Joanne ran away, into the girl's bathroom, and Tommy decided to go into the girl's bathroom after her. I guess he thought that because it was after school it was ok. Well, Joanne ran into a stall just as Tommy walked in. Tommy thought he knew which stall Joanne was in so he stood on a toilet of the stall that was next to the one he thought Joanne was in. It wasn't. A girl was peeing in that stall(she'll be Stacey). Tommy freaked out and ran out of the girls bathroom. The next day Joanne told me what happened. I asked her if he had turned himself in yet. She gave me this crazy look and told me that he knows it was wrong and she doesn't want to ruin his record . I want to tell Stacey to tell someone, but my friends will hate me for it. They think his guilt is enough punishment. I talked to Stacey's best friend and she says that Stacey's too traumatized to tell anybody. help.

Answer 1

I think someone should go with Tommy ( a girl) and go to the girl that he saw peeing in the stall and explain to her and also tell her he is truly sorry for what he had done and that he did not to mean any harm , other wise this may be a big problem especially for both who are freaked out about it, but everyone needs to forgive it wasn't like he purposly ment to watch the girl pee..I am a mom and that is what I would tell my boys to do

Answer 2

i think your blowing all this out of proportion it was an honest mistake, so he walked in on (stacey) she was only having a pee so what its no big deal. lighten up its funny if anything

Answer 3

just let it go unless it happens again or if he does anything else like it

Answer 4

sexual harrassment? no. stupid thing to do? yes