My friend and I were drunk last night. We are both guys and drank 1/3 bottle of vodka each. He told me he wanted to have sex with me and dropped his pants. Then said "i'll make it easier on you" and dropped the back of his boxers. Later on he pretended to be knocked out so I gave him mouth to mouth. He didn't get mad but he did get up. He exposed his pubes to me at one point. We were wrestling and we got into the 69 position. He claims to be straight. So is there any chance he was just messing with me or is he gay/curious?
2007-02-25 04:52:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm not claiming to be straight. (Well, to him I am.) I'm gay...
2007-02-25 04:59:05 · update #1
Oh the bottle was a liter... 1/3 of a liter each.
2007-02-25 05:00:38 · update #2
I really don't think he is "messing with you" except to have sex. People do let inhibitions go when they are drinking, but unless the guy was passed out cold I think he was interested too.
He is probably gay or bi and just not ready to announce it to the world. Depending on how old you are is if you can have a conversation about it and see where it leads.
Good luck
2007-02-25 05:28:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry your confused. It sounds like a real trying time in your life. To answer the question first, it sounds like your friend is gay/curious for sure. There is no harm in this at all except when it hurts someone elses feelings that they can't admit it.
My second response is don't rush into things so fast. wether your gay or not it doesnt matter. Being with you might have confused him even more at this point. But ask yourself this, what did it do for you? Did it confirm anything for you? As in how do you feel about yourself now? Do you feel like your straight or gay or even bye. Some people stay curious for a long time because they dont want to come out of the closet for fear of the unknown or what people might think of them. But if you have the right kind of friends and they like you for who you are and not what you can do for them then it shouldn't matter what your sexual orientation is!
I hope this helps you
Good luck to you!
2007-02-25 21:12:18 · answer #2 · answered by hartessence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of "straight" guys I know get a lot more liberal about their interest in the same sex when they're drunk but typically it doesn't go as far as your friend went =/....
As other people have said he's probably at least curious about it if not gay/bi. The only problem is that if he remembers the experience he might be very very nervous around you after that. Think about it, would you want to see someone who could expose your deep dark secret? Perhaps you need to do something to make sure that he knows you're cool with what happened or you're interested =/??
Best of luck!
Cheers,
2007-02-25 13:57:06 · answer #3 · answered by Gene M 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he thinks you are attractive, and would like to have sex with you. I mean, he said he wanted to. Maybe he was unsure how you would react, and if you would 'tell anyone'. I think it is natural for people to have erotic feelings about each other and to worry about rejection, outing, etc. My suggestion to you would be to check your feelings... do you want to be with him? Do you want a one time sexual fling? Do you have emotional feelings for him? Can you handle giving him some hot sex and them having him pretend he has no idea who you are? Can you handle him wanting to be your 'in-the-closet-don't-tell-anyone' lover?
These are all possibilities... think it through. It may be good, and it may be painful. To me, even though it might result in a car accident, it might be worth the ride and I might just walk away with minor injuries. :-)
2007-02-25 15:40:19 · answer #4 · answered by Darcy R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the vodka affected his behavior. I think it's time to have a heart to heart talk with him. He sounds a bit confused with his own sexuality.
2007-02-25 13:56:26 · answer #5 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously your friend is gay and it appears you may be also. If you're not you'll stay away from this friend and throw up everytime you think about that night but I gotta feeling you'll be giving him a call later in the week.
2007-02-25 12:58:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Oh sure, the old Vodka defense.
2007-02-25 12:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by sparkletina 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you are both gamecock fans
2007-02-25 12:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by Goosh T 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
dude, if ur gay go for it, who cares if he says lets **** go ****, why not
2007-02-25 15:54:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋