interested to know if you settled for your bf /gf that you didnt have 'consuming love' for like carrie in satc. if so did u regret it or was it a gud idea?
2007-02-25 04:41:51 · 7 answers · asked by helen b 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thankfully no I didn't. But it was because the things in the person I was seeing just got to be too overwhelming to deal with. Now I'm with the most wonderful person I could imagine. I wouldn't call it an all consuming love because that makes the rest of my life seem a little empty but I couldn't imagine not being with him now.
2007-02-25 04:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by indydst8 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is foolish to just 'settle'....even if the 'consumimng love' does not come along, there is no law demanding you have to be an item. By all means have lots of friends....and enjoy! But do not fall for the 'I'm not normal if I don't have a special one'
If it happens (it did with me) well, that is great. But your values is not determined by your partner (or lack of)
2007-02-25 15:22:10 · answer #2 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. The man I married is my be-all, end-all. I think he's the perfect man, and even what's imperfect about him is adorable. Plus, unlike Carrie's Mr. Big, my husband is faithful, kind, and SURE that he wants to be committed to me!
If I'd married the guy I dated before my husband, now, that would have been "settling" for someone who was less that I wanted. But luckily that fellow showed his true (manipulative, immature) colors before we got married!
2007-02-25 12:55:38 · answer #3 · answered by Guernica 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I settled. Then a woman came along that I feel deeply in love with. I shouldn't have settled.
2007-02-25 12:45:37 · answer #4 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what ever you do dont just settle for a bloke get one that you know can only get better and that will grow and grow and when you keep looking at them you get like nervous and you get the butterflies like if you just settle with someone more that likely there prob be domestic violence because you dont love one another your just settleing with it. sorry if i have been a bit useless
2007-02-26 04:28:56 · answer #5 · answered by kerryanne l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't settled , i truely love my partner with all my heart and soul.
2007-02-25 15:20:44 · answer #6 · answered by lushmum 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes... took ten years to come to my senses...
2007-02-25 12:47:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋