2007-02-25 04:16:47 · 28 answers · asked by Rocky 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
OMG! Jesus girl! Your parents don't know because you are ashamed of yourself? I am 24 and just had a baby, I also live with the father and we both work...we still struggle. My god you are still a child yourself sweetheart, every year you are a teenager is a huge learning experience, once you hit twenty, you look back and say OMG, everything I thought was important really didn't matter. Keeping this baby means THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. Your time is no longer yours, daycare is expensive, the financial burden is insane, you are barely old enough to have a full time job and aren't even close to finishing school. Adoption is an option, but then you will live the rest of your life in emotional agony and your child will have issues of abandonment as an adult. More then likely you haven't told your parents because you are afraid of the consequences, having unprotected sex at ANY age is crazy if you aren't ready to be a momma. TRUST ME at 13 YOU AREN'T ready, unless your mother is willing to be a mother all over again...oh god dear, please don't do this again. Get someone who you trust who is at least 18 to accompany you to an abortion clinic and you could set that up without your parents haing to find out...or maybe just tell your mom when you're alone together and she will be there for, its your mom, she has to be! Your mother is the best person to talk to you, she has to know whats best for you, because shes spent your whole life so far doing it. Trust your moms advice. I wish you all the luck in the world my dear, do whats best for your situation.
2007-02-25 05:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by SunnyCK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the last thing you need to hear is how could you let this happen. Assuming it is you that you are referring to. I am a parent of 6 children and if my daughter was pregnant at 13 I would want to know. After I got angry and upset and got over all the emotions I would need to be there for her. You need pre-natal care. It is so important to see the doctor and take vitamins and all the things that come along with 9 months of pregnancy. God forbid there are complications along the way, you need to be monitored,especially because you are young. Tell your parents what is going on and then you both can get together and find the answers and get through it all together. You can't do this alone. You need the love and help and support of your parents or at least your mother. For the sake of you and your child. Good luck to you.
2007-02-25 13:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by AUDREY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just can not imagine being pregnant that young. I remember crying about turning 13.. cause I was a teenager. I did not even think about sex. What is causing you to put yourself in that kind of position? You should be enjoying your life and having fun with all your friends.. not worrying about if you are pregnant.. tell your parents that you are in a bad situation and go from there.. but ask for help at the same time. YOU need to grow up some more. Please take your time and enjoy life along the way. I pray that things work out for the best.
2007-02-25 12:27:14 · answer #3 · answered by luvthbaby2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they are you're parents and any parent is going to get upset when their teen tells them they are pregnant esp at you're age. If i was you i just would sit down with the most understanding parent and tell them and let them break the news to the other one. But good luck with everything.
2007-02-25 13:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by [[<3]] 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think your pregnant you need to go sit down with your mom , and just tell her , I know that it's easier said than done , but this is the only way . You want to take care of yourself and your new baby . Your Mom loves you , she may be a little disappointed , but time will heel.
2007-02-25 13:04:30 · answer #5 · answered by Lil Red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with you only being 13! you need to tell your parents, There going to be a little mad, But if There Supportive there going to be there for you, if you dont want the child, talk about Adoption!!, but you should tell your parents.
2007-02-25 12:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by yellowdaisy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents.
I know you're probably scared of their reaction, but in all honesty, you need a support system and they are the best ones to help you. Also, the sooner you tell them, the better it will be - their reaction will be a lot worse if you wait and they find out by how you look, or someone else telling them.
2007-02-25 12:23:18 · answer #7 · answered by chicchick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really need to tell your parents. Of course they're going to be upset...you're their baby. But, being 13 and all, you really need their support thru this and their help making decisions.
hope it works out for you
2007-02-25 12:40:56 · answer #8 · answered by maroula 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell your parents right away I know you dont want to but they love and they know whats best and whould know what to do. You have to tell the guy that you slept with to. I know that that is gonig to be hard to do but i've been through it to and things will work out.
2007-02-25 14:03:24 · answer #9 · answered by tabby-bonay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I wouldn't get pregnant cause I'm a guy but just tell it to them nice and easy.
2007-02-25 12:24:34 · answer #10 · answered by Who said my name? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋