i found some photos that i was not suppose to see
i am lost please help
2007-02-25 04:09:39 · 51 answers · asked by TOM P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dear Penthouse, You'll never believe what happened to me......
2007-02-25 04:13:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
You'll never know unless you ask. Even then, she may not be able to tell you. Sometimes we have feelings we can't find the words for.
If we assume the photos are what you think they are she may be just curious in which case this will all probably pass in due course. She may be bisexual, in which case you may be able to come to an arrangement (always assuming that you could both deal with it), but IF she is beginning to feel more comfortable identifying as a lesbian, you will probably save yourself a whole heap of anguish if you both move on sooner rather than later. Sorry, whatever happens it sounds like you're all in for a tough time. Good luck.
2007-02-25 04:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by marshlander 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Oh what a terrible situation especially to be betrayed by your wife, and your sister. What i did when i was in your situation is i collected lots of evidence, just bide your time after a while if she is cheating she will start to make mistakes, i know it's hard not to jump in with both feet, but you need the evidence. Have you still got the photo's? if you have put them in a safe place or see if you can get the negatives. You dont want to jump in with conclusions with what may be an innocent situation. Your gut feeling will tell you, when the time is right to confront her. Good Luck to you
2007-02-25 07:50:16 · answer #3 · answered by kevina p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are the photos legitimate proof that they are having sex with each other? If they are, you need to confront her about it. You may love her very much, but do you want to live in a relationship where you are not the only one she is being with? It doesn't matter whether it is a man or woman, cheating is cheating. You deserve to know so you can make a logical decision. Did you keep the pictures? Use them as proof so she can't deny the allegations. Good luck.
2007-02-25 04:20:17 · answer #4 · answered by leigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her with evidence just like the first guy said but dont forget the miracles people could do with photoshop. Also, they might have just had a little too much fun or something and nothing kinky.
If anything, go on cheaters.
2007-02-25 04:21:30 · answer #5 · answered by Livin it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you're asking for help for when the answer is obvious....kick her dumbass out and show her the photos while you're doing it. If those were photos of guys I'm sure you'd be quick to handle that situation. Cheating is cheating no matter what sex they are.
2007-02-25 04:14:30 · answer #6 · answered by oo_m_i_c_h_e_l_l_e_oo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not going to share the photos why mention them
this makes a change from hubby cheats on wife with her sister i suppose
dont know what to advise /
2007-02-25 04:16:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont go take those pics and confront both of them and have your best friend there to witness it....im saying this for a reason the proof will help you incase they both deny it in the future!
be strong...pics dont lie...! find the complete truth before you mqake your move and if its true (im presuming it is if u sawe pics) then figure out how you will move on with your life because theres no point in wallowing in self pity....you're too good for that...get rid and get on....
if its all one big misunderstanding then fair enough but dont let anyone make a fool out of you babe!
good luck and God bless
2007-02-25 04:14:45 · answer #8 · answered by Jia K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You never said what type of photos you found, were they kissing, naked etc.... If that's what you found, then you may want to confront your wife about it. Don't wait too long to talk to her about it, do this as soon as you can!
2007-02-25 04:18:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way u can tell if she is cheating is ask her but there are other ways. Ask her is she would be interested in having a threesome with another woman and then do a bit more investigating or ask her is u could watch her and another woman if she shy's away from it then I wouldnt worry about it........OR you could ask her to have sex as soon as she gets home and be romantic about it...gl
2007-02-25 04:16:17 · answer #10 · answered by featherlover2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would mention you suspect the cheating to her and if she denies it, then show her what you found. If for some reason she still denies it, I would keep a closer eye on her and try and catch her in the act yourself.
2007-02-25 04:16:25 · answer #11 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋