Zach won't let me talk about it with him. I told his friend to talk to him about it, but he hasn't yet. Zach's friend hasn't even brought it up! I need some major advice for me to bring it up and break it to him. At school it's so obvious that Manny and Zach's gf (Hannah) are backstabbing him. Hannah and Manny go to the movies all the time. Our teacher Mrs. Musser, talks about how she saw them at the movies holding hands and everything like that. HELP!!!!!
2007-02-25 03:58:57 · 5 answers · asked by magnetgurl56 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
In terms of whether or not you tell your friend, you have three things to consider:
If this girl is not planning on breaking up with him, do you feel he has a right to know about her infidelity so he can decide whether or not he wants to stay with her? (My experience is that usually people get protective of their friends and do not want them dating anyone who is cheating on them or treating them in any other hurtful or disrespectful manner).
If you feel you and his girlfriend can do the right thing on your own – meaning you confront her and she end things with the other guy never betraying Zach in this way again – will telling Zach end up being too hurtful for him? Keep in mind that if you choose to do this it is because it would be easier on him, not because it would be easier for you.
Regardless of what you and this girl plan on doing, do you feel Zach has the right to know what went on?
paaatches --The best advice that I could give to you about your situation is that you need to consider ever outcome to ever path you can take. Think about these questions, and then do what you think is the most respectful and caring thing to do for your friend.
2007-02-25 04:40:54 · answer #1 · answered by paaatches 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is Manny a girl or a guy? It sounds like a girl's name. Sorry about that. Zach, I think knows about it but is scared to talk about it. Just talk to him yourself about it privately. He's gonna understand. I think he just doesn't wanna let people know that he knows about Hannah and Manny. Let him open up so you guys can talk.
2007-02-25 12:08:24 · answer #2 · answered by try_and_get_me 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mind your own business.. You don't want to get involved in this kind of stuff and have it back fire on you
2007-02-25 12:16:24 · answer #3 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what goes around comes around. if he chooses not to listen, that is his problem. if he comes crying back to you, tell him that he should've listened.
2007-02-25 12:44:01 · answer #4 · answered by questionsgetanswers 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
TELL ALL YOU KNOW
2007-02-25 12:10:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋