i have a gf. my sis knows. now the problem is she is going out with his friend and chatting always with him over phone. when i asked she says nothing is there. but my friend saw her with him outside in the college time. when i askd she says he is only a friend. now how to ask her to stop to talking to him as i afraid she might ask me to stop me to my gf. i dont want her to fall in love with him.
2007-02-25 03:58:08 · 20 answers · asked by vicky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
1. Do you knw dat guy is not good for ur sis
if yes then
2. I think ur sys comes first than ur g/f.......so dnt wrry abt ur gf....n tell ur sis to stop wat she is doing (as u said he is not good for her)
3. You can still cntinue ur relation with gf...
2007-02-25 04:50:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah big bro do have this trouble, i think u need to give her space but since u feel u do not want her to get involve with that guy u must have seen something wrong in him , but if u tell ur sis to get over him she won't n rather she would point out to u, so its better not to take serious actions against her jus let her go ,she need a bit freedom,but if u r still worried for her ,keep n eye on her thatz all u can do,i think
2007-02-25 04:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doctor heal thyself first. Have trust in her if she is already grown up and knows her mind.
If you cannot,than let the ailment called Love spread irrespective of whether you like him or not. After all anything with a pair of Wings or Legs cannot be stopped from coming closer.
After all when 'Mia-Biwi raazi to kya karega Kazi'
2007-02-25 16:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by mcmohan40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what you have been very immature. Why do you think you can have a girl friend and your sister can not have a boy friend. do you think women are less of a human being or lower then then men. she has all the right to do with her life as she sees fit. To me she looks like lot mature then you. Did she ever tell you to stop seeing your girl friend.
2007-02-27 02:17:04 · answer #4 · answered by Iqbal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y U DONT WANT?i think there should b some valid reasons bhind that? try to make ur sis understand the real facts of d boy.
2007-02-25 23:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by sherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u r doing the same, How can u ask to stop her activities, Still If u want that she stops her activities, just discuss with her frankly and state the possible problem which could arise due to it.
2007-02-25 04:05:57 · answer #6 · answered by AVANISH JI 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think u shall not interfere with your sister's affair. I know you care for her and may be the guy with whom she is linked is not of a good character still you let her do what she likes. She will not listen to you until she realises herself, so either open her eyes by revealing some of the bad habits of her boy freind by not disclosing ur identity.
2007-02-25 20:40:07 · answer #7 · answered by jana s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u shudn't stop ur sister, both of u r different individuals n lead ur own seperate lives, u dont interfere in hers n she wont in urs, how wud u feel if she stopped u from meeting the girl u luv? thats wt ure doing 2 her....be reasonable
2007-02-25 16:54:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have any control over who your sister sees. What you can do, is talk to your sister, and tell her how you feel, about him, and that you do not think it is a good idea.
2007-02-25 04:03:20 · answer #9 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's good for the Goose is good for the Gander! Leave her alone!
2007-02-25 10:04:28 · answer #10 · answered by nice guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋