im really in love with this girl.
she has a bf, and we're not really good friends
the thing is i dont want to have these feelings for her, firstly she aint a good person she can be selfish self envolved and arrogant
secondly she uses me alot
its been like this for 3 years, her asking for favours and me running for her, being her *****
why do i have these feelings for her?
how can i overcome them?
thanks for the help
2007-02-25 03:54:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
One thing is no one uses you, you let them use you, and you do those things for her because you problaly feel it will bring you closer to her, best thing just dont be available stay out of her life
2007-02-25 06:08:42 · answer #1 · answered by Renee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably have feelings for her because you don't know any other girls well enough, or because she gives you attention that other girls don't - even if it is only negative attention.
The best way to overcome them is to start having more self confadence, next time she asks you to do something for her tell her to do it herself. Don't do someone favors if they treat you like dirt, and they don't appreciate it.
When you meet someone who appreciates your giving nature you'll be a lot better off.
I used to date girls who took advantage of me, beacause I just can't say no to the people I care about. You have to learn when to say no sometimes, even though you feel bad about it.
2007-02-25 12:02:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just going to have to ignore them and start looking for a nice girl that doesnt treat you like crap.
best of luck.
2007-02-25 12:03:10 · answer #3 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋