What do girls want to hear? For us guys is being "Here's a problem, here's a fix." What does girls want us to say instead of the solution? If I say "oh", the girl will think that i don't care about her. Any clues please?
2007-02-25 03:42:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Girls would rather someone sympathize than tell them how to solve the problem. Say stuff like, "That's crazy", "that sucks", or "how could he do that?" Trust me, we have a million thoughts in our head at once and we've already thought of all the solutions - we're just venting.
2007-02-25 03:46:01 · answer #1 · answered by Beauty Bunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
main difference between men and women, women like to vent, to be hugged and listened to. Instead of 'oh' you say something that shows you are listening, like "I'm sorry it went so badly for you, hope next time it goes better." Men like to solve problems, they aren't necessarily talking to vent (although sometimes that is the case) that's why so many women turn to women, because they don't necessarily want someone to solve their problems, just commiserate
2007-02-25 11:58:32 · answer #2 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls want you to listen when they talk, agree with them no matter what, be honest as long as being honest means agreeing with them, respect them as women, respect their independence while still paying for meals and opening doors, kiss without the expectation of sex, cuddle on the coutch wathing what THEY want to watch, giving up being with your buddies to go shopping for her sisters birthday, and doing it ALL with a smile on your face. And this is just the tip of the iceberg my friend! Did I mention that looking at online porn or masturbating in the shower makes you devil himself, despite not having had sex with your wife in 6 weeks? You'd be better off asking how to create nuclear fission with a pencil, apple, and a plutonium rod!
2007-02-25 11:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just show that you are interested in her problem. Ask something like "What can I do to help?" When you say oh, it shows that your'e not really interested and girls don't like that. Hope this helped.
2007-02-25 11:48:17 · answer #4 · answered by Dija 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try these phrases, Wow that's interesting, tell me more. That must be hard for you, how can I help? Do you need me to hold you, I wish I could help, I am so proud of you ...etc etc. Don't fix listen and support and love.
2007-02-25 11:48:00 · answer #5 · answered by bevfortbragg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them anything because they will believe it. Girls do not like to hear the truth.
2007-02-25 11:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by kim j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they just want you to listen to there problems
they don't want a solution they just want to complain
so just agree and listen intently
if you listen to the entire thing get yourself a klondike bar
2007-02-25 11:47:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you ask this question twice in 5 minutes?
2007-02-25 11:46:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to hear "Oh that's a shame, that must be so diffcult for you" day after day after day.....
2007-02-25 11:45:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes....girls always want to hear yes
2007-02-25 11:45:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋