He was my first so I don't know how satisfied feels?
2007-02-25 03:24:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First you gotta learn to satisfy yourself...try videos or vibrators and just spend a day learning about yourself, then teach him how to pleasure you
2007-02-25 03:33:44 · answer #1 · answered by trishay79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know what an orgasm is? Then you need to talk to him and tell him that you need him to help you have one. You can start by exploring this all by yourself. Everyone does it, so don't be embarrassed. You have a clitoris and if you begin to rub it you will know when you reach it. Just keep going until you just can't take it anymore. When you find out what it is and how it works then you can lead him into making you satisfied . good luck. And try to find a passion party to go to. They sell so many toys for women that you will be so happy and your man can get involved in this too. And once you find that spot i told you about do it in front of him and believe me he will take over and it will be good.
2007-02-25 11:35:08 · answer #2 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your communication with your husband must be open. Both of you must communicate with each other honestly and openly about any topic at hand. I would suggest you talk with your husband about sex and find out what he likes and let him know what you like. Try to find what works. There is a book I recommend by Dr. William Glasser called Staying Together. It's a book on Control Theory and it breaks down the 5 needs. Everyone should check this book out.
2007-02-25 11:35:28 · answer #3 · answered by Melt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a long way to go. Maybe get some soft porn for the 2 of you to watch together. Also get yourselves some sex toys. You especially!! You can figure out what to do from there can't you?? X marks the spot......
2007-02-25 11:30:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow,, i think there needs to be a school to teach guys how to find and stimulate the erotic zones of a female.
There are sooo many of them and sooo many ways to excite her.
Be his teacher,, or his guide.
2007-02-25 11:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by scott in minnesota 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Experiment.
Satisfy yourself and sometimes invite him to watch.
Research the web for ideas to spice things up.
pretend you are in a porno, wear costumes, go to an adult store together, etc.....
2007-02-25 11:28:48 · answer #6 · answered by Don Quesadia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him what you what, i be-live that foreplay is a greater part of love making, and it can get very intense, were u can get the big o before actually making love.
2007-02-25 11:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by englishman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to mix things up a bit, otherwise sorry to hear you're stuck with a dud.
2007-02-25 17:12:58 · answer #8 · answered by nanabooboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,, take yourself in hand... or get a ladys best friend...
good luck
2007-02-25 11:30:06 · answer #9 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it his problem or your problem ?
If you do not know, go to a sex therapist
2007-02-25 20:03:47 · answer #10 · answered by ken88dorset 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋